There were some things that happened to you that you couldn’t control.
The weather, for instance, is a prime example.
The internal thoughts and motivations of others is another.
Waxing your eyebrows, however, is something you do have complete control over. You have to be either a novice at waxing or an utter dope to not get it right.
Radai, of course, was a combination of the two.
Which would probably explain why she had ripped off her entire right eyebrow.