- No commitments involved.
- You’re uncertain in your role on his/her life.
- You cannot expect him/her to be always there for you.
- You cannot demand.
- You can’t be jealous.
- There is no “us”, meron lang “YOU” and “ME”.
- You can’t be sure on his/her feelings for you.
And this will make you wonder, where you in the relationship or if there’s a relationship at all.
But why do others still settle for this kind of relationship? For fun? Kilig feelings? Para lang may kasama habang wala ang “real thing”? Well maybe.
But if the one gets cold that’s the end of everything.The relationship is false, surely the PAIN is real. You will be miserable hoping to bring back what you used to have. That’s hard!! Right? But that’s the consequences. Kasi from the start wala ka naman talagang pinanghahawakan, kase parang kayo pero hindi naman. And what’s worse? You don’t want to let go of that feeling anymore, of that certain person because you are too attached to let it go.