pregnancy surprise

It makes me really sad that I don’t have the possibility of a surprise natural pregnancy. When I lurk on infertility message boards I read people’s signatures and I see so many with “surprise natural bfp!” And it just makes me want to punch something. Yes I am super jealous, I can admit it.

At least today I didn’t start spotting at 11 dpo like last time but that doesn’t mean anything.

My bronchitis cough has still not gone away! Tonight it is actually worse than it has been in days.

I told my husband tonight that I had been wanting to dye my hair purple for a while now, he told me I should do it. I might.

ETA: I’ve also hit the point where every twinge I feel is “oh god was that a cramp? I bet it was a cramp.” Like I know it will probably fail and even though I know that there’s still that little spark of hope that will proceed to kill me when blood comes or I have to look at my 1000th bfn.
This Woman's Heart-Wrenching Birth Story Is Nothing Short of a Miracle

The emotions that come with childbirth can be hard to contain as it is, but when your pregnancy is mired with the realization that you have Stage 3 breast cancer, it’s hard to imagine the feelings you’d have when you finally get to meet your baby, after months of chemotherapy treatments and a mastectomy. It’s something many wouldn’t even think is possible.

But for one woman, it was. Photographer Kate Murray captured the moment this strong mom not only held her son for the first time, but miraculously nursed him on her remaining breast. Murray posted the photos on her Facebook page and shared the story:

This is the definition of strength, love, and pure raw beauty. Mom was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer halfway through pregnancy with her surprise gender baby. She had one breast removed and underwent chemo while carrying her miracle baby. She was induced at 36 weeks in order to receive more treatment. Baby BOY was born ready to prove to the world his strength he inherited from his strong mommy. He latched on to her remaining breast all on his own and the room erupted in so many emotions. Breastfeeding is such a sacred bond, and this one just makes my heart break and swell at the same time. I am beyond blessed to have met and gotten to know this woman and her family, and so honored she asked me to be there to document these precious moments.

Murray has encouraged her fans to share these images and to “continue to pray for this family as they go into their next journey together.” We, too, wish them nothing but the very best.

Surprise pregnancy announcement to future grandparents.

No guys im not pregnant lol. I just watched the video on youtube of people surprising their parents with the news that they are gonna be grandparents. It makes me so happy but then i realized that i will never get to see that reaction from my mum. And it broke my heart. I started crying. Ill never be able to see her joy at being told that she is gonna be a grandmother. Fuck. This just destroyed me inside.

Wisp Layla Dragneel - Accepted

Mun name; Norman


name; Wisp Layla Dragneel

Parents; Lucy and Natsu

Age; 7

Birthday; July 7, X809

Two Paragraphs describing their past and personality;

   Wisp was a surprise pregnancy, thankfully there were no complications in her delivery.  When she was little(er) she’d play with her fathers scarf  for hours, eventually he gave it to her to keep.  She loves all her brothers and sisters, though she does have a favorite in her big sister, Luna.  

   While Wisp is normally happy and bubbly she has a rivalry with Ur, reminiscent of their fathers.  Though the two can get along at times, it’s mostly fighting.   She has a (not so) secret crush on Silver Fullbuster.

    She always refers to the guild master as “Gramps”.  You can blame that on Natsu.

Magic; Fire Dragon Slayer

Face claim; Chibi Usa  (sailor moon)


Congratulations on your pregnancy! Or… Surprise! Either way, this is an exciting yet definitely a nerve-racking time for you, as for this is just the beginning of yet another new chapter in your life!


With every major change in someone’s life, there are many factors that may also be affected by it as well. Pregnancy is no different – you are growing a little baby inside of your body! Of course this means that everything is going to be a little different for a while, such as the clothes you wear and the way you go about your day. One of the biggest changes, however, will probably be changing your diet in order to feed for two.

All of these changes can be overwhelming, but no worry! There have been plenty of women who have gone through these changes just fine. This blog is to specifically help those tackle the challenge of what to eat and how to eat while pregnant.


And as if the speed-pregnancy wasn’t surprise enough, it turns out I was carrying twins!

Opal Orchid ♡ Artistic | Excitable
Tanzanite ♡ Good | Virtuoso

There was, however, something in the children that was different. At first neither myself or Phlox could figure out what it was…until we realised that neither of them could see. Their eyes looked like the stars and universe we had left behind in Oasis Landing. Opal was covered in a birthmark from top to bottom as well…but they seemed happy enough. All I could guess was something in the time travel had knocked them for six and sent their eyes into overdrive.

Whatever happens to my little babies, I wouldn’t change them for the world.

kittenbeans asked:

Hey, I don't want to seem nosy asking... But do you have polycystic ovaries? I hope you don't mind me asking. It's just that if you do, I thought it'd be reassuring to know that my cousin does and she now has 4 children. I have also had problems due to irregular periods so I was put on the pill to regulate them some what (due to having longer and heavier periods) and whilst on the pill fell pregnant! I wish you the best of luck and I hope you fall pregnant soon, beautiful!xxx

Yes I do have PCOS! I was diagnosed last year when my cycles started to become very irregular. I went from having 32 day cycles for 7 years to 60 days, 90 days, 58 days etc. It was horrible. I was on the pill for a few years but it always seemed to work like it should. No surprise pregnancies for me lol

What to Expect When You’re Expecting

“It’s too late to pull out now.”

Challenges of impending parenthood turn the lives of five couples upside down. Two celebrities are unprepared for the surprise demands of pregnancy; hormones wreak havoc on a baby-crazy author, while her husband tries not to be outdone by his father, who’s expecting twins with his young trophy wife; a photographer’s husband isn’t sure about his wife’s adoption plans; a one-time hook-up results in a surprise pregnancy for rival food-truck owners.

Unpopular opinion #5965

If you freely choose to have a child with a person you know is abusive, you are co-responsible for any abuse they mete out on that child.

You knew they were abusive, and you chose to bring a helpless third person in, someone who is now stuck for at least eighteen years. You are not as responsible as the abuser, but you sure as hell share some of the responsibility.