before with past crushes at this time of the school year, and I know that over the summer I will essentially get over him, but I still can’t help but feel this way. I guess no matter how good you are at letting crushes go, heartache is still possible, and I guess I just gotta let myself feel it, huh? (P.I.P. 2/2)
Hello there P.I.P. Natasha here.
Crushes and all that is just a phase. Like you said you will get over him in the summer, but why don’t you try and pull him to one side and tell him how you feel? It might seem like the worst thing in the world to do but it could be the best thing to do for you. Even if you do tell him and he doesn’t feel the same way, you can have the closure of knowing how he truly feels. Crushes will come and go, some will be regrets and some will make your heart brake. One thing you shouldn’t let break your heart is looking back and thinking “Why didn’t I tell him how I felt?”
But you do have to let yourself feel this heartache, it’ll get you ready for future heartbreaks and heartaches. Don’t let this one guy put a downer on your whole experience of graduation. You should be enjoying, having fun, celebrating. Not thinking about a boy.
Come back to me if you need more help P.I.P.