everyone is talking about this rn so i’d just like to remind everyone that you can identify with femininity and be a man. you can identify with masculinity and be a women. “feminine” and “masculine” are social constructs.
saying that gerard is trans/non-binary and using they/them pronouns after he has said multiple times that he prefers he/him pronouns and identifies as a man is really shitty. he could wear a dress, put glitter all over his face, be feminine as hell AND still be a man. forcing labels of any kind onto someone is wrong and harmful, i would think that you all know and respect that.