anonymous asked:

What can a male feminist do who actually wants to help the cause and isn't just an opportunistic feminist for women who appeal to his wants? I constantly check my internalized misogyny, but I worry that I'm not doing enough.

#Listen to women who point out that certain kinks/certain ways of behaving (whether in the bedroom or out of it) is harmful.
#Call out other men on their misogyny
#And please distance yourself from sex positive feminism. Sex positive feminism isn’t for men. Although, unfortunately, current sex positive feminism seems to cater to men. On tumblr especially male sex positive feminists just spend their time reblogging nude women tied up and restrained and hide behind the false excuse that it is somehow ‘empowering’ for women…just, UGH, please don’t.