I just fail to see all these people making these wild absurb requests irl, but I’ll humor you because I can’t sleep and I have nothing better to do If someone is offended by something, and accommodating them is not negatively harming you and is possible. (and no, refraining from swearing does not negatively harm you.)( yes, refraining from swearing is possible, for most people) then there is absolutely no reason for you not to be accommodating
My friend doesn’t like the idea of onions in her food. if she can’t taste them, there’s no problem, tastewise, but just the thought of onion being in her food upsets her. Because we value her as a person, and because removing onion does not infringe on someone’s right (and no, the right to free speech isn’t applicable to freedom of speech) then why the fuck wouldn’t we remove the onion?
would you literally go up to a friend and say “OH, BUT YOUR DISLIKE OF ONION IS ALLLL IN YOUR HEAD. IT DOESN’T HURT ME TO ACCOMMODATE YOU AT ALL, BUT I’M A PRICK AND GOING TO MAKE SURE YOU’RE IN DISCOMFORT, BECAUSE YOUR DISCOMFORT ISN’T WRAPPED UP IN POWER POLITICS???
Your example is impossible to accommodate. (let alone, totally unrealistic) Should we not accommodate everyone because some are impossible to accommodate? no.