offended-by-your-existence

when you can’t stand a person that your friends are friends with and they keep defending them or laugh with them when they do problematic shit (even when it’s offending and hurtful to your very existence) and you don’t even know if you should associate with your own friends anymore because of that single person that just messes everything up. like how many do you have to cut off to get rid of that extended feeling of that person in your presence, even when they’re not there??

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“don’t be offended if your pansexual but your existence offends me”

fistarnius asked:

I exist in real life. I see something offensive on Tumblr, which is part of real life, and become offended in real life. Your Tumblr blog exists in real life. Stop accusing me of dishonest debate and answer the fucking question.

I just fail to see all these people making these wild absurb requests irl, but I’ll humor you because I can’t sleep and I have nothing better to do If someone is offended by something, and accommodating them is not negatively harming you and is possible. (and no, refraining from swearing does not negatively harm you.)( yes, refraining from swearing is possible, for most people) then there is absolutely no reason for you not to be accommodating

My friend doesn’t like the idea of onions in her food. if she can’t taste them, there’s no problem, tastewise, but just the thought of onion being in her food upsets her. Because we value her as a person, and because removing onion does not infringe on someone’s right (and no, the right to free speech isn’t applicable to freedom of speech)  then why the fuck wouldn’t we remove the onion?

would you literally go up to a friend and say “OH, BUT YOUR DISLIKE OF ONION IS ALLLL IN YOUR HEAD. IT DOESN’T HURT ME TO ACCOMMODATE YOU AT ALL, BUT I’M A PRICK AND GOING TO MAKE SURE YOU’RE IN DISCOMFORT, BECAUSE YOUR DISCOMFORT ISN’T WRAPPED UP IN POWER POLITICS???

Your example is  impossible to accommodate.  (let alone, totally unrealistic)  Should we not accommodate everyone because some are impossible to accommodate? no.

I’m pretty sure that taylorswift is like a mostly perfect human being and I am offended??? Like excuse you how dare you provide perfect baking advice and be a genuinely helpful and selfless person and on top of that be slaying the charts with music that you actually write yourself about your own experiences and ugh. Your existence offends me but I love you and my own feelings are very offending so basically what is my life

I can only hope that one day I can succeed in the way that you have and use what will hopefully be my exposure to change the lives of people for the better. You’re definitely an inspiration in my life. Right now I’m a college student studying vocal performance with dreams of performing in operas someday and maybe even singing with the Met. I decided to reach out to you because of the frequency that you respond to your fans. College is hard, and sometimes it can suck the life out of you. I’ve been feeling very discouraged and small lately and just felt like I could maybe use some encouragement from someone so wildly successful. So if you see this, which I doubt you will, it would definitely be appreciated, especially with finals creeping up slowly on me.

the stages of attraction to a fiction character

1. what a cutie

2. my husband/wife

3. fuck you. fuck your face. i’m so offended by your existence right now i just

4. help i’m stuck

anonymous asked:

OMG. YOU'RE SO CUTE! Your existence offends me in the best of ways.

hey hey thanks :)