Luv Unloced

I accidentally pulled a chunk of someone’s dread locks out! I feel horrible!
Now this person DEFINITELY wasn’t innocent. He had an active part in the rising conflict, and even though I reacted how anyone else would have in the heat of a violent moment….
I still feel sorry about the locs being ripped out.
But I do hope he forgives me AND ALSO acknowledges his actions that led to that moment!

I wonder if we’ll be able to stay friends. 😣😔😢

SideNote: I don’t think the locs should have been able to come out that easily from the root… It seriously made me wonder about his nutrition. Lol

I’ve seen a lot of talking and not a lot of being lately. BE good, BE positive, BE hardworking, BE STRONG. Don’t front. You don’t need to be a victim or have a story to be strong. Just be strong - isn’t that enough? BE ABOUT IT. #strength #fitspo #novictims #beaboutit

“Where are you born?”

“Where are you from as in whats your background?”

“There’s no reason for you to dress like your trying to out dress people”

“You people” 

“You don’t have to go through the front you can go out the back”

 These statements from the interview I had this past week keep replaying in my mind. I have to thank God because when I was sitting across from this ignorant employer I kept smiling and nodding. Once upon a time I would’ve let him have it BUT in doing so where would that have gotten me? Kicked out the program and not only that but I would’ve been lowering myself to his level. I made a decision not long ago to stop being the victim in situations; instead I decided to be the victor. I refuse to allow one ignorant person affect my decision when it comes to applying for jobs or who I chose to date because in allowing them to do so I’m only limiting myself. Yes, I am a black woman but that doesn’t mean that I have to follow the stereotypes or only date black guys. I am a black woman who choses to go above and beyond proving that I am no different. I refuse to be limited by people who are small minded. In saying all this it doesn’t mean that I’m not upset..but I am instead of sulking about it I’m choosing to use it as fuel driving me further in life. 

"In my mind no I never let it get to me. Everybody got a time will it get to me. V’s up thats victory” - Logic

Please, don’t kill me
Don’t wanna die young
I’ve got a mother
And yes, I’ve got a heart

- Alba -

#govegan #vegan #neweaster #veganeaster #noblood #novictims #nomurder #meatismurder #anotherway #why #askyourself #talktoyourself #think #love #nature #universe #loveisuniversal #antispecism #youwouldnteatyourdog #youwouldnteatyourcat #youwouldnteatyourchild

Being a victim

Some times u have to remember that you don’t need to cause any more stress to your situation. U can live and breath in the problem and fester in it. or you can take your thoughts off the problem and put them some where else and breath life into that.
What you put ur attention too becomes bigger. If ur negative abought it you will create more negativity. If you be thankful and positive about it you will bring more goodness.
It’s all up to you! What power we have.