Don’t ‘Um what? lol’ me, don’t tell me to lie to my parents and then completely bash them and say that they need to grow up and just let me do something because really? How would you feel if I said that shit about the people who raised you? I can complain about my parents to you and you can complain to me about yours but do not cross that line and complain about MY parents to me!
Sincerely, I may not always agree with them but it doesn’t mean I won’t get offended or defensive on their behalf.