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Make Each Day of Your Life Happier

Everyday….
Share a kind word with a friend.
Give away a smile.
Tell a secret.
Listen to what someone has to say.
Listen with your heart
to what someone cannot say.
Try one new thing.
Forgive yourself for past mistakes.
Realize your imperfections.
Discover your possobilities.
Make a new friend.
Accept responsibility for everything you do.
Refuse responsibility for anyone else’s actions.
Dream one dream.
Watch the sunset.
Cherish what you have.
Cherish who you are.
Love your life.

Fatherly advice from a pretty cool dad...

You can call me Gwyd (Rhymes with Squid). I have tattoos, piercings and walk on broken glass for a living.
This blog is here for the sole purpose of giving asked for advice. 
I am a Dad. I think I am a pretty good one. 
If you need some fatherly advice from someone who will try his hardest to remain impartial and will never judge you because of your choices…
Give me a try. Anons welcome.
I will however tell you exactly what I think or how I see things. I will not be cruel but always honest.

LGBTQIA and Feminist friendly. 
My religious views/beliefs will not ever come up unless directly asked (Although as an overview I am extremely liberal)
I promote positive body image (All bodies) and will not tolerate shaming of any sort. Just don’t do it.
And I am human too. I will make mistakes. I give anyone following me full permission to let me know when I screw up. Just try to do it nicely :)

And if you just want to be social- Visit my geeky side at gwydtheunusual.tumblr.com

Walls. Advice?

Stuck at this wall. I’m so, genuinely afraid to love and respect my scars. 

Anyone who’s already got that down? Advice?

Sidebar: My mother’s coming to visit at the end of the month… not sure if it would be good to manage any progress before she gets here. Might be wiser to wait on that work till she’s gone so she can’t knock it out of me.

I hate it when I am having an otherwise great conversation with a group of people I really want to like but then somehow we get on the topic of ANYTHING regarding social justice and I realise that I am the odd one out because I will always advocate for marginalized groups over dominant ones. 

I don’t know how to make it known that I disagree with things like “Oh, slavery was so long ago. People are over it” without being a total asshole. Like I would rather not let these people make the mistake that I agree with them- BECAUSE SLAVERY IS ALIVE AND WELL- but they’re my friends I guess. 

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It’s driving me insane that I can’t get over you. I’ve tried, and tried, and tried to move on but no one compares. The worse part is you dont even have those feelings for me anymore. All these great guys are presenting themselves and I can’t bring myself to like them, not even a little bit. Fuck me man.
If anyone can give me advice, please do, I’m begging.

Someone please help me with boyfriend advice...

Oh geez this is going to sound sooo pathetic.
So my boyfriend recently started college so I’m guess he’s just stressed.
Lately, i’d ask him what he’s doing and he always replies “nothing.”
This has been going on the entire relationship. He’d sometimes answer with “penis” or “jacking off” or “just doing something.” i know you’re trying to be funny, but Why can’t you just answer the fricken question..
And when I asked him about his first day and if, “he met anyone new” he replied with yeah. He didn’t tell me if it was a girl or boy. Maybe I’m just paranoid.

When he goes out with a friend he says, “went out with a friend” i always tell him who i’m going out with: name, gender, relationship.

I’m tired of having the same conversations. I told him exactly that. And he just replied “yeah.”
Okay. OKAY! It’s so frustrating.
A part of me say to wait for him to apologize or reply. But the other part is to just suck it up and apologize. But for what??!!
I know my boyfriend, he’s not the type to respond. So if i wait on him, it’ll probably be a week from now.

I know for a fact he isn’t cheating on me. I’m just seeing where our relationship stands because it’s the same damn thing everyday… He doesn’t spice it up or surprise me. Okay okay. I guess i’m asking for too much..
Help me calm down….

I do love him though…
I'm sorry I believed her.

I’m a really bad person. I ruined a good friendship several months ago and I’m starting to miss it, us, how we used to be. I let my girlfriend at the time tell me shit and I believed her, yet to this day I still don’t know if it’s true. I had and still have no proof. I wish I could say I was sorry but I’m scared and to be fair, we have said stupid stuff but I think I’m more in the wrong here. No I know I am. I don’t know what to do, I’m just sorry. I know you hate me, god you’ve told me directly and indirectly so many times but I don’t hate you, I never have. I hate myself, not you. I just wish I could tell you.