Need advice...

There’s this girl I really like and I know she likes me back. She ignores me nearly all the time, except for when she’s drunk (because she said she loses her inhibitions). Last time we talked she said she’d be my girlfriend if I took her out to dinner, to which I agreed of course and then the next day (when she wasn’t drunk) she snapchat me random pics of her day (having a milkshake, trying on clothes at the shops, etc). The morning after that I said, good morning and she replied “I’m sorry, I can’t do this.” And now she’s back to ignoring me.
Any explanations?? I already know she’s bad news and I should move on but I’m struggling to forget about it all without a reason/closure

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Share a kind word with a friend.
Give away a smile.
Tell a secret.
Listen to what someone has to say.
Listen with your heart
to what someone cannot say.
Try one new thing.
Forgive yourself for past mistakes.
Realize your imperfections.
Discover your possobilities.
Make a new friend.
Accept responsibility for everything you do.
Refuse responsibility for anyone else’s actions.
Dream one dream.
Watch the sunset.
Cherish what you have.
Cherish who you are.
Love your life.

A pound down...but also appeal?

As happy as I am with my results, I can’t help but feel like shit.
I lost a poud today (yay!!) but it seems that I’m the only one happy with my results.

I thought that I would tell the bf and we would celebrate and he would take me, but instead I get an “meh, just make sure you dont get too small.” Makes me feel so unattractive, unwanted, and it makes me feel like I probably should quit.

I wish I didn’t depend on his acknowledgement but I want to feel that he’s enjoying me becoming secure and sexy with the figure of my dreams, but is it worth it if my sex life disappears? I love having sex, and I hate feeling like I have to give up my dream figure because I dont want to risk not having sex with him.
What do I do?

Fatherly advice from a pretty cool dad...

You can call me Gwyd (Rhymes with Squid). I have tattoos, piercings and walk on broken glass for a living.
This blog is here for the sole purpose of giving asked for advice. 
I am a Dad. I think I am a pretty good one. 
If you need some fatherly advice from someone who will try his hardest to remain impartial and will never judge you because of your choices…
Give me a try. Anons welcome.
I will however tell you exactly what I think or how I see things. I will not be cruel but always honest.

LGBTQIA and Feminist friendly. 
My religious views/beliefs will not ever come up unless directly asked (Although as an overview I am extremely liberal)
I promote positive body image (All bodies) and will not tolerate shaming of any sort. Just don’t do it.
And I am human too. I will make mistakes. I give anyone following me full permission to let me know when I screw up. Just try to do it nicely :)

And if you just want to be social- Visit my geeky side at

I recognize that I’m a needy person but idk why everyone keeps telling me that guys don’t like to be chased that they like to be the chaser as if it’s a game?? Like if I care about someone and I’m genuinely interested in them I’m gonna show it and have no shame. Maybe that’s intimidating? But I always mean the best and I’ve found a truly great guy but I scared him away because I came off too strong and I regret being so need but I also don’t on the other hand because it just shows that I truly care about him. I’m just in love with being in love and I want someone to want me the same way that I want them. Is that too much to ask? 😔

I hate it when I am having an otherwise great conversation with a group of people I really want to like but then somehow we get on the topic of ANYTHING regarding social justice and I realise that I am the odd one out because I will always advocate for marginalized groups over dominant ones. 

I don’t know how to make it known that I disagree with things like “Oh, slavery was so long ago. People are over it” without being a total asshole. Like I would rather not let these people make the mistake that I agree with them- BECAUSE SLAVERY IS ALIVE AND WELL- but they’re my friends I guess. 


It’s driving me insane that I can’t get over you. I’ve tried, and tried, and tried to move on but no one compares. The worse part is you dont even have those feelings for me anymore. All these great guys are presenting themselves and I can’t bring myself to like them, not even a little bit. Fuck me man.
If anyone can give me advice, please do, I’m begging.

Someone please help me with boyfriend advice...

Oh geez this is going to sound sooo pathetic.
So my boyfriend recently started college so I’m guess he’s just stressed.
Lately, i’d ask him what he’s doing and he always replies “nothing.”
This has been going on the entire relationship. He’d sometimes answer with “penis” or “jacking off” or “just doing something.” i know you’re trying to be funny, but Why can’t you just answer the fricken question..
And when I asked him about his first day and if, “he met anyone new” he replied with yeah. He didn’t tell me if it was a girl or boy. Maybe I’m just paranoid.

When he goes out with a friend he says, “went out with a friend” i always tell him who i’m going out with: name, gender, relationship.

I’m tired of having the same conversations. I told him exactly that. And he just replied “yeah.”
Okay. OKAY! It’s so frustrating.
A part of me say to wait for him to apologize or reply. But the other part is to just suck it up and apologize. But for what??!!
I know my boyfriend, he’s not the type to respond. So if i wait on him, it’ll probably be a week from now.

I know for a fact he isn’t cheating on me. I’m just seeing where our relationship stands because it’s the same damn thing everyday… He doesn’t spice it up or surprise me. Okay okay. I guess i’m asking for too much..
Help me calm down….

I do love him though…

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A list for organization:

. Find a decent place in Brooklyn or LES Manhattan with a roommate (high priority)

. Fix paperwork w my tax info and mail to IRS (high high priority so I don’t get arrested lmao)

. Become more engaged, start working out and develop a steady diet. (No more starving myself bc I won’t eat what is available)

. Submit resume to places I find desirable to work at