I have been doing some research for when my little man makes his appearance. The basics cord clamping, skin to skin, cord blood donation, circumcision. Well i did some deep research on circumcision and i do not approve. I thought that it was this little procedure no problems, then i learned my baby is tied down by his arms and legs. No numbing creams or jell which does make sense because he is fresh into this world. Yet i hate the idea he will be tied down, cut, feel everything and i will be in another room having to hear my baby cry. I do not want him to be circumsized, i do not care if it is the “normal” when he is old enough to realize what he wants he can get it done then, if he chooses. Of course my love fights with me about it, telling me i have no choice. I am the mother though, i have final say right?