People on tumblr don’t really care about abuse victim.
They care about abuse victims that fit their stereotype. Woman, victim of a male abuser, hating and mistrusting of all males as a result, possibly not straight, possibly a victim of sexual abuse, feminist, extremely sensitive to slightly harsh tones and in constant need to be coddled and babied. The more you fit that image, the more likely they are to give a shit.
However, as soon as you start to stray away from that, people love to take the “victim card” away from you. Suddenly you are inconvenient, you don’t fit their agenda, so now your experience is in question. Now it’s ok to question whether you really have been abused, now it’s the time to claim that maybe you actually deserved it after all, now it’s the time to claim that your voice is invalid and it’s ok to send you death threats and tell you to kill yourself.
All things that would never be acceptable to do if someone fit their standards, but you? You are not helping them furthering their agenda, so you’re a hinderance.
Same goes for trans people.
People on tumblr only care about trans people that agree with their ideas, that are blindly accepting of any identity, that don’t question things, that are ok with being fetishized, that are ok with telling all cis people that they are scum and they should die, that are “queer” and not just LGBT,…
As soon as you stray away from that you are a transphobe, a truscum, a gatekeeper, you have internalized transphobia, you are certainly male scum, you want to appease to cis people, etc. It is now ok to tell you to die, to kill yourself, to wish that your transition doesn’t work out, to misgender you, to call you transphobic and sexist insults, to doxx you.
Same for any category really. Disabled people, mentally ill people, anyone in the LGBT community, women, etc. As soon as you stop following the hivemind’s ideals you are the enemy.
Tumblr doesn’t care for minorities or victims. They only care about minorities and victims that are convenient for them.
That’s not fucking support. That’s like the parents that say they will only love you if you do as they say and fullfill their expectations, or else you are no child of them.