If a man never draws near to God through the blood and body of Christ, allowing the Spirit of Holiness (the Holy Spirit) to make him the love that is selfless, tomorrow will be yesterday. Yesterday’s pain will carry on into tomorrow.
Going to church and hanging around Christian community doesn’t make us Christian, wanting to be alone with Him for the one and only reason of knowing Him, to become like He is makes us Christian. The only purpose of having a relationship with God is to become that very same love. :)
"Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love." —1 John 4:7-8