We spend our whole lives worrying about the future, planning for the future, trying to predict the future. As if somehow figuring it out will somehow cushion the blow. But the future is always changing, the future is the home of our deepest fears and our wildest hopes. But one thing is certain; when it finally reveals itself, the future is never the way we imagined it.

‘’Why do bad things happen to good people? We ask that question so often, it becomes a cliché. But that’s because bad things do happen to good people. Constantly. You just have to hope that when it’s your turn, you’ll know what to do. How to cope. How to persevere. But the truth is, you don’t know how you’ll react to your worst-case scenario. None of us do. Not until it happens.‘‘ (x)

anonymous asked:

The episode I was talking about was the next one I didn't remember the name but I found it & it's the next one called "how to safe a life" as you might already know, In the beginning I actually sensed he was dead or he himself was caught up on a bad situation, but as I put the pieces together, he probably just stopped on his way to DC to help the people injured in the car accident. That's the reason why he didn't answer mer & the reason he didn't show up to his meeting

But, that doesn’t answer the police cars. From what I understand from your messages it sound like you are saying that Derek is on his way to the meeting, sees the accident, and then helps save them. If he wasn’t involved in the crash, why would the police cars come to Meredith’s house?