My problem with these "White guys dating Black girls" pages:
It bothers me that there are these white boys dating black girls pages and blogs all over the place and it is difficult to find of the ones other way around. It proves my point that white women are coveted and black women are fetishized. Yeah there are a few blogs that highlight black men with white women, but look at the popularity differences .. It’s nothing like the other. It paints this picture that dating a white dude puts you in this special place but its not special at all. Now I mean.. love who you love, there’s nothing wrong with that. If you’re totally committed to being with someone, and you love them, no matter what ethnicity, be with them and don’t let anyone mess with what you have.. But if you’re not that serious about it, I’m talking to you. I’m saying that there’s a whole serious difference between a black girl bringing home a white guy and a white girl bringing home a black guy. It’s a known fact and a whole problem. It’s problematic when I have an uncle who married a white woman and because of the marriage, her parents didn’t associate with them for years. It is problematic when black boys are STILL getting murdered for dating white girls. (Look up 17 y/o Lennon Lacy)… But that’s America. It is all transcending from the *Willie Lynch Letter*.
Bet money that if you’re a black woman and dating a white boy, you’ve been asked by other black girls “hey, how do I get with a white guy? What did you do?” I just want to know why? What the big deal? Why is it such a big goal to get a white man?
A lot of black men are too brainwashed. Because of Willie Lynch, society and the pedal stool that white women are held on, a lot of us are sucked into thinking that we have to have one. It’s like when you were a child and your parents told you that you couldn’t have soda or candy or something.. Didn’t that make you want it more? You’d see candy and soda commercials and ads and go crazy. It didn’t even have to be a top of the line brand of soda or candy, you would have done anything for an rc cola or a candy bracelet. There’s coca cola, Pepsi, Reese’s and starburst out there but you’re itching for the whack brands. Whole time, candy and soda are bad for you and you don’t need to be eating it anyways. It’s different and that’s all that matters. Ask a black guy why he likes white women so much.. Ask him why he won’t date black women… Wait for a logical answer….. This also applies to the romanticism of light skin. Anything as close to white as possible is ideal and anything dark is a no no.
Black guys are seen more like as prop or a tool. It is like the only way it’s cool is if they are talking about sex and the black guy has a big black cock(bbc) like we are just animals or something. Idk I’m not with it at all. I’m still doing my research, and I need to be more clear, but thank you to who offered their insight. Maybe I’m too pro-black to understand the hype. Maybe because I look at my mom, sister, grandmothers, aunts, step mother, friends and I see so much beauty, love and strength that I believe in our women wholeheartedly. Idk maybe it’s just because black women relate to me better. I just can’t see it. I’m not with it.