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Eres y seguirás siendo en mi memoria lo más hermoso que me ha pasado en la vida. Me doy cuenta ahora de cuánto te amo al escribirte éstas palabras, hasta pronto… quizá. De todas maneras estás aquí, siempre estarás aquí. Sé que en alguna parte, respiras, y eso ya es mucho. Te amo.
—  Marc Levy
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Dorian/Inquisitor rom-com spoofs to cap off the weekend. 

The baby’s design is inspired by Otherwolves’ post (they are too kind to me).
I’d like to think Quell and Dorian would adopt a kid sometime in the future post-Inquisition. ( ◜◒◝ )♡

Bonus: Awkward 90′s family portrait style with nug jammies. 

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Dalish Marriage Vows

I’m still writing a post detailing my personal headcanons on what Dalish Weddings and Elvhenan weddings would be like. In the meantime, I wrote out some Dalish Marriage Vows, which I based heavily upon some traditional irish marriage blessings. 

Women’s Vows:

Ara lethal’lin, lasan ara’lan sul saota
Lasan ara’sal, sule ha’lam’sal’shiral

Telas ema em, ar giran ara’lan
Y la’var nuvenir, sul’eman emma asahn sul’ema
Telas raja em, ame lan’revas
Y jusul’anan na i’viren isalas
I thai juem on’el rodhe, garal o emma da’lav

Ara dir’vhen’an

Ma juveremas sael’prear or emma dil
Sael davathe or emma hyn
Sasha mar melin julahnan fra nydha
Sasha mar inan juithan fra dhea
Juame mar shalasha, la ane emma
Telam’aven judirtha or em’an
Var vas druast i’em’an, i alinen tel’juhartha ebalasha
Juleanathan i myathan na ove min’sal’shiral, i su uth’then’era

Man’s Vows:

Ara lethal’lan, lasan ara’len sul saota
Lasan ara’sal, sule ha’lam’sal’shiral

Telas ema em, ar giran ara’len
Y la’var nuvenir, sul’eman emma asahn sul’ema
Telas raja em, ame len’revas
Y jusul’anan na i’viren isalas
I thai juem on’el rodhe, garal o emma da’lav

Ara dir’vhen’an

Ma juveremas sael’prear or emma dil
Sael davathe or emma hyn
Sasha mar melin julahnan fra nydha
Sasha mar inan juithan fra dhea
Juame mar shalasha, la ane emma
Telam’aven judirtha or em’an
Var vas druast i’em’an, i alinen tel’juhartha ebalasha
Juleanathan i myathan na ove min’sal’shiral, i su uth’then’era

Vows Without Gender:

Ara lethal’len, lasan ara’lin sul saota
Lasan ara’sal, sule ha’lam’sal’shiral

Telas ema em, ar giran ara’lin
Y la’var nuvenir, sul’eman emma asahn sul’ema
Telas raja em, ame lin’revas
Y jusul’anan na i’viren isalas
I thai juem on’el rodhe, garal o emma da’lav

Ara dir’vhen’an

Ma juveremas sael’prear or emma dil
Sael davathe or emma hyn
Sasha mar melin julahnan fra nydha
Sasha mar inan juithan fra dhea
Juame mar shalasha, la ane emma
Telam’aven judirtha or em’an
Var vas druast i’em’an, i alinen tel’juhartha ebalasha
Juleanathan i myathan na ove min’sal’shiral, i su uth’then’era

As you can see, the only thing that changed between bride and groom, is the gendered pronouns of lan, len and lin. 

The Translation

My clan mate, I give you myself to make one from two
I give you my soul, until the end of life’s journey

You cannot have me, I own myself
But while we wish, I give what is mine to give
You cannot command me, I am a free person
But I shall serve you in the ways you need
And the fruit shall taste sweet, coming from my hand

My promise

You shall have the first cut of my meat
The first sip of my wine
Only your name shall I cry during the night
Only your eyes shall I see in the morning
I shall be your armor, as you are mine
No bad words shall be spoken of us
Our bond is sacred with us, and others shall not hear my grief
I shall worship and praise you through this life, and into uth’then’era

The Cullen romance is much better when you leave it to late game. 

Like, if you don’t initiate until after his personal quest?  The scene on the ramparts makes so much more sense.  Everything falls into place. 

Cullen sees the conversation coming because the Inquisitor’s been using the caring, understanding, puppy-dog-eyes options all throughout that debacle.  But he also can’t believe the conversation is happening because this amazing woman just saw him in ugly withdrawal mode. 

He’s eager to follow through on what’s been a long-standing attraction for him, but isn’t sure how.  He’s not a people person, and he didn’t have anything serious in Kirkwall, so what to do to prove he might be a good long-term prospect in spite of his issues? 

Sudden ramparts kissing!!  Wait, no, that’s not any good, that’s how you pick up a woman in a tavern. 

So he moves on to a hasty Plan B: a heavily scripted lake date where he hands over a treasured item.  Not jewelry, though because let’s not get ahead of ourselves, jewelry might be too much, he doesn’t want this to get weird oh Maker is he making this weird?? Good thing he has his speech all written out. 

Unfortunately his script just about ends there because there’s so much else to do.  He’s tired and he’s worried and he’s very sexually frustrated and sort of flails his way into asking if they’re going to commit.

Cullen, you glorious relationship disaster.