just like african americans generally get offended when white people use the word “nigger,” its kind of an internal word for the community. weve embraced it to have a sense of pride in the community, but generally dont like when people outside the community try to embrace it as well sense they obviously arent representing gay pride. 

the point is most people dont seem to be offended and theres much more productive things you should be doing, Anon, than starting these discussions on the internet between teenagers and young adults on a social networking site. 

but, if me calling myself “faggot” is keeping you up at night and youre beyond offended and youre laying down taking deep breaths, i really dont have a problem changing my url.