So, my friend is staying with me, right? She’s helping me pay rent (about 1/3) and I really don’t have any rules - she’ll run/unload the dishwasher or take out the trash, but I don’t ask her to clean or anything, ok? Ok.
Now the ONLY thing I asked was that her boyfriend didn’t spend the night. It makes me uncomfortable, if I’m there if I’m not, it just makes me uncomfortable. I talked to her about it, she said she understood…
Then she texts me while I’m at work and tells me that she wasn’t feeling well so she asked him to spend the night with her, and that she hopes it’s okay since he’ll be gone when I get back in the morning.
The fact that she told me she invited him over, instead of asking me if she could really irks me, like she knew I’d say no or something. I told her that I didn’t want him sleeping there anytime, that this is the only thing I really ask of her and I hope she can respect it going forward.
Like, this is MY apartment, if I don’t want guys staying over, then guys shouldn’t stay over. He’s nice and all, but I don’t know him /that/ well, and the idea of him using my bathroom I just…
I’m just really upset and I feel very disrespected.
TL;DR - I’m not meant to have a roommate.