anonymous said:

"I no longer harbor hurt feelings or offense against JYJ, but I am completely indifferent to them."--How long did it take you? I try to be indifferent, but it just continually angers me because they threw their "brothers" under the bus. Maybe that's why the split/lawsuit is still talked about even after these years. The pain and suffering they caused were/are inexcusable no matter how their fans paint it.

I think it’s a journey, not a destination.  I will never forget … but it won’t change the past either, Anon.  It especially digs up and opens old wounds when I read things like what Yoochun recently quoted, “I no longer hate them,” which infers that at one time he did hate our Yunho and Changmin.

I start to feel anger bubbling up with thoughts of “How dare you, have you no shame?!”  But you know what?  In the end, nothing I say or think will make a difference with those three.  The only real difference I can ever make is by supporting TVXQ’s Yunho and Changmin.  I make a difference by flying around the world attending their concerts.  I make a difference by purchasing their CDs in bulk and then gifting them to other fans. I make a difference by posting on SNS, my blog, by creating another international TVXQ site to show my pride and love for them.  I make a difference by loving their music, by sharing it with others.

I would never make that kind of difference by bashing or hating. I’d rather expend my energy, time and money on TVXQ! not on anti-fans, or even by hating OT5s.  They aren’t to blame.  We just have a difference of opinion, and we are all allowed to express our support as long as we don’t hurt others.  I try and follow Yunho’s example. 

Remember, if it weren’t for the split, we would never see the Yunho and Changmin we see today, the superstars that shine on their own, and not in anyone’s shadow.  I may never had been able to see or hear their songs they’ve created and performed like they do now, if they had stayed as five.  True artists are tormented, rise from that pain and create art.

Take the high road, Anon, it’s healthier and you’ll feel less burdened.

i love pete wentz, i am able to relate to his strength and the way he has had to overcome obstacles in his life and that makes him my hero, he makes me feel less alone.
but i will never excuse the problematic shit he has done/said. what he’s done in past is awful and certain things he has said are inexcusable and i hold him accountable 100%
i know my fave is problematic and i admit that and will never be blinded by my admiration for him when he does something wrong
and that should go for everyone with a problematic fave

Watch on

A man is cyberstalked by his ex girlfriend, who has him arrested 3 times all because of the lies she told. The things this woman did is inexcusable and definitely psychotic. Really worth watching and possibly rethinking if you really think all women are victims of abuse after this. She is one of many women, who do things like this for revenge and its a damn shame. Makes real victims fearful of being believed.

((If someone’s treating you like crap, fucking talk to them about it. Try to find out what’s going on in their life and attack that, rather than them. I mean, real abuse is inexcusable, period. Real abuse, like rape threats, death threats, death wishes, attempts to control, etc., deserve only an unfollow and a block, and maybe a call to the police if you feel it’s credible. But just something like “wweeeehhhhhhh you’re not paying attention to meeeeeee” can be worth fixing, if you care enough about the person lashing out.

A PSA from someone who’s been on both sides.))


Those ‘craftsy’ leather Mary Janes that often have an exaggerated toe, perhaps some cut-out leather embellishments (a few polka dots / a rudimentary leaf) or white stitching, and are most likely ‘comfortable’. They are often described as ‘fun!’ and ‘kind of different’ by their proponents, and will usually be paired with a Mandarin-collared tunic and small round-frame glasses (in red - also ‘fun!’). Also accompanying the outfit will be one of the aforementioned reusable shopping bags, which most likely contains Himalayan salt, a box of quinoa and a bar of Green & Black’s 70% Dark Chocolate. 


Are you kidding me? He molested his own cousin for years, she says she is sure he killed Trayvon because he was black. GZ always said racial slurs. She is speaking out now because she finally feels safe that he can’t hurt her anymore. Prosecution knew about this and wanted to play the interview in Trayvon’s case but it was deemed inadmissible in court. #inexcusable #trayvon #trayvonmartin #riptrayvon


Unexplainable, Inexcusable 

No one has been able to explain to me why young men… and women serve in the U.S. Military for 20 years, risking their lives protecting freedom, and only get 50% of their pay. While Politicians hold their political positions in the safe confines of the capital, protected by these same men and women, and receive full pay retirement after serving one term. It just does not make any sense. 

On Fox news they learned that the staffers of Congress family members are exempt from having to pay back student loans. This will get national attention if other news networks will broadcast it. When you add this to the below, just where will all of it stop? 

35 States file lawsuit against the Federal Government

Governors of 35 states have filed suit against the Federal Government for imposing unlawful burdens upon them. It only takes 38 (of the 50) States to convene a Constitutional Convention.

This will take less than thirty seconds to read. If you agree, please pass it on.

This is an idea that we should address.

For too long we have been too complacent about the workings of Congress. Many citizens had no idea that members of Congress could retire with the same pay after only one term, that they specifically exempted themselves from many of the laws they have passed (such as being exempt from any fear of prosecution for sexual harassment) while ordinary citizens must live under those laws. The latest is to exempt themselves from the Healthcare Reform… in all of its forms. Somehow, that doesn’t seem logical. We do not have an elite that is above the law. I truly don’t care if they are Democrat, Republican, Independent or whatever. The self-serving must stop.

Proposed 28th Amendment to the United States Constitution: “Congress shall make no law that applies to the citizens of the United States that does not apply equally to the Senators and/or Representatives; and, Congress shall make no law that applies to the Senators and/or Representatives that does not apply equally to the citizens of the United States ..”

- with Veterans Freedom, Desertstorm Veterans, Steven Sonich, Bob Veteran and Veterans.
By: Tim Shuler