A Known Entity…

This story has been told time and time again. It’s quarter to nine and you are running late to work. Frustrated that you are still at home, you start mildly panicking. On your bed there is a pile of clothes, that were outfit options at one point in the morning - but but for what ever reason, you just was not feeling it. Sound familiar? What to do? What to wear? Is that the time? Panic really setting in now. Shit. Shit. Shit. This is the outfit I settled on. Dress - IamTinashe Custom, Necklace - Lovisa, Belt - Temt, Boots - Novo Shoes

Grow Up Not Old…

It was lunch time and I was heading to “the spot” with my Creative Director to capture my outfit of the day.

As you do.

Whilst walking to our final destination I happened to run into an old high school friend.

Keep in mind it has been 10+ years since we finished high school.

I know you are probably now trying to calculate my age. Don’t.

When I saw my friend she had her husband, her two kids (7 and 2 months) in tow.

Hugs, chit chat, laughter, more chit chat. Air kisses goodbye and we both kept it moving.

This relatively short encounter got me thinking though…

At my age now am I a bona fide adult or just a phoney?

Its embarrassing to say this, but some of my biggest decisions of the day may include such gems as:

Should I work out in the morning or afternoon?

What am I going to wear?

What do I feel like for lunch?


If you cannot already tell I don’t have the additional responsibilities of being a wife or mother just yet.

My mother puts things into perspective with these simple words of wisdom, “enjoy it while it still lasts”.

…And that is what I am doing.

Top - Supre, Hoop Earrings - Lovisa, Skirt - Target, Shoes - Target


Tear That Cherry Out…

In 1770, British parliament banned lipstick, saying it had the power to seduce men into marriage, which was classified as witch craft.

Fast forward to 2014, I am pretty sure I would have been burned at the stake with this outfit.

Necklace and Bangle - Lovisa, Skivvy Top - Dotti, Pencil Skirt - Temt, Shoes - Wittner


This Week I Am….

  • Getting used to my new look. If you follow my Instagram you would have seen the making of my new hairstyle!
  • Since moving to Canberra I seem to be working longer hours. This week, I am going to really ensure that I start balancing my work and me time
  • Booking flights for my first trip home to Brisbane
  • Of course continue to be all over my diet and work out plan.

Jacket - IamTinashe Custom, Sunglasses - Sportsgirl, Bag - Louis Vuitton, Skirt - Temt, Shoes - Nine West


Guest Blogger:  Love Kyei

One of my favourite things about blogging is the exposure you have to other fashionistas. No longer are we constrained by the images of “beauty” bombarded to us in magazines, TV shows, music videos etc. I really like the fact that you can form amazing friendships with real people from different cultural backgrounds and walks of life who share the same passion - Fashion. Today I am pleased to introduce the very accomplished blogger Abena Love – the Ghanaian princess. Have a read; see what she had to say.

How would you describe your personal style?I would describe my personal style as simple and chic, yet sophisticated, feminine, and classy. I like pieces with structure, that create great silhouettes, and that I can also accessorise, because this adds personality and character to an outfit.

What is your go to fashion outfit? I don’t really have a go to outfit because I kind of wear whatever I want when I want. On the occasion when I don’t know what to wear though, I’ll throw on some fitted black skinny jeans, with either a cute flowy top or peplum top and some loafers. To pull the look together I’ll add a structured blazer because it adds instant sophistication.

What is your must have item in your wardrobe?Once again I can’t say I have just one ‘must have’ item…but I love peplum tops (they look great on any figure), skater dresses (they are so feminine), and midi length skirts (they create a beautiful silhouette)! I also have lots of bold, colourful pieces in my wardrobe because colour looks so amazing against brown skin! 

What inspires your style? I get alot of inspiration from fashion blogs! There are so many amazing blogs out there, and I get so excited when I’m scrolling through the perfectly edited pictures of outfits and looks from my favourite fashion bloggers!

5 things about you that the world should know about me…

  • I believe you do not need an excuse to dress up and look fabulous, and you shouldn’t save your favourite clothes for a special occasion! Every day is a good reason to look fly!
  • I’m absolutely obsessed with ankara prints! Every year when I go to Ghana I get tailor made pieces by my seamstress. I’m really excited that there are so many African designers now who are incorporating ankara prints into their collections, in a way that is modern and sophisticated! And FINALLY the rest of the world is taking notice!
  • I’m actually a Primary Music teacher by profession, and from the age of 5 music was my passion (and it still is), but in the last few years I’ve become equally as passionate about beauty, hair, fashion and styling, and I actually see myself doing something along those lines in the near future!
  • Although I love shopping, I’m a bargain hunter! I purchase nearly all of my items on sale (clothes, shoes, accessories, bags), because I don’t believe you need to break the bank to look good! I’m not stuck on brands and don’t necessarily follow trends. I simply wear what flatters my curvy figure. I feel very strongly that every woman should know their body type and dress for it, because if you do, you can choose and put pieces together correctly in a way that creates the perfect illusion! You can cover up what you don’t like and accentuate the best parts of you! Not every style/trend is made for every body type! And just because everyone is wearing something or the magazines say its this seasons 'must have’ doesn’t mean you should be wearing it. 
  • Lastly, living in Australia where the general population often has a limited view on Africa and Africans, I feel its very important that I not only represent Ghanaians, but Africans in a positive light by the way speak, interact with people, and most importantly the way i present myself. Because I may be the only encounter that someone may have with an African and I want to make sure the experience is always a positive one! As the quote says “You never get a second chance to make a first impression." 

She manages to have a different hairstyle with each look - isn’t she just F-A-B-L-O-U-S? You can find out more about Abena on: You Tube, Instagram, Facebook and her very own Fashion blog – MAKINGS OF ME!

I have mad love for my fashionable brothers and sisters who have would like to take the wheel and be a guest blogger, contact me if you are interested!

Email - Instagram ~ Twitter


Wedding Style - Solange Knowles and Alan Ferguson

Last week there was speculation of Solange Knowles tying the knot with long time love Alan Ferguson.

Men lie, women lie, Photos don’t.

I wasn’t going to believe it until I saw the photos.

Let me just say - it was worth the wait.

Could the wedding photos be any more breath taking?


Their unconventional wedding style exuded class, elegance and true beauty.

Honestly, I couldn’t be happier right now

Congratulations to the Fergusons.

Images Courtesy of Vogue.com


Seven Pictures…

I have a some what of an unhealthy obsession with this couple.

Million high fives to anyone who knows both their names.

I bet you didn’t guess Pharelle’s better half.

Love love love Pharelle Williams and Helen Lasichanh individual style - and coupled together?

Their style chemistry is there for all to see - Just plain magic.


I Consider Leopard Print A Neutral…

Strutting my stuff as I walked to the office, no lie i was really feeling myself - I was walking with vengeance. Pause. As I dramatically flick my hair to the side - giving you a moment to appreciate my strut.

Leopard print is my signature print slash colour and I seriously consider leopard print as a neutral. Yes you read that sentence correctly, leopard print is a neutral. When i wear leopard print i really feel fierce, extra pep in my step. Yup, Over the top dot com.

So as you can probably imagine I was having one of those days were I didn’t want to go home because I felt like not enough people had seen my outfit. Gosh, just have to laugh don’t you. Has this ever happened to you? No? Well this is awkward.

Top - Temt, Jewellery - Lovisa, Belt - Country Road, Skirt - Dotti, Shoes - London Rebel

Freedom, Fro-Dom…

Told you in the last post the hair was reverting back to the afro. *raises one fist high*

Time for some shut eye.

Who needs a pillow when you have your Fro providing you with ALL the cushioning?

What Up Doe?

If you are a regular visitor, you would have noticed that the posts have been few and far between. Why? Well for the first time since my long break earlier in the year I have two weeks of just straight chilling.

I don’t have anywhere I have to be, nothing I have to be doing. Just straight chilling.

It’s nice. Real nice.

Giving me adequate time to recharge and ready to come out swinging with fresh ideas for 2015.

When I return to my regular blogging schedule it will be Beast mode ON.

If You Are Too Comfortable Then It Is Not Fashion

What a statement right?

I think that women dress for three different types of audiences: for themselves, their girlfriends, and for their significant other. When you are dressing for yourself, you wear what you feel comfortable in or whatever shows off what you consider to be your best asset.

When you dress for your girlfriends, it can sometimes be ‘men repelling’. For some weird reason the Olsen twins come to mind – I mean I like the way they dress, but would I dress like them? Not necessarily.  Men repelling fashion is on trend, but your average mere male just can’t understand i.e. statement necklaces that weigh about the same weight as a new born baby or our beloved shapeless maxi dresses.

When you dress for your significant other….well *raises one eye brow*, I don’t think I have to go into too much detail there, you should know what they like to see you in. If you don’t – you are doing it wrong. Yeah, I said it.

Each work day is an opportunity for me to wear all my beloved clothes. It excites me that I get to style them my way and present my unapologetic version of myself, yes even in the workplace. When it comes to my work wear I don’t think I can categorise my style to suit the three audiences I described earlier.

All I can say is I dress how I feel, even If sometimes I look back at the photos and cringe, at the time it felt right.

Earrings - Lovisa, Peplum Top - Temt, Belt -SES, Skirt - Valley Girl, Shoes - London Rebel


The Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side…

Big or small we all have problems. That is just a fact of life.

As a social experiment imagine if we got a group of friends together and we all wrote down our problems. All those problems are then placed in a hat.

We then proceed to pick out a new set of problems, to have and to hold.

I am pretty sure that we would quickly want our own problems back.

It goes to show that even if it is only a small patch of grass carefully laid out on concrete.

The grass is not always greener on the other side

Top - Temt, Skirt - Temt, Shoes - London Rebel.


Thick Thighs Save Lives…

When I was younger I was a girl guide covered in badges.

Now that I am grown I wear the thick thighs badge with pride.

Team Thick Thighs stand up!

Sunglasses - Sports Girl, Denim Shirt - General Pants Co, Shorts - Miss Shop, Shoes - London Rebel


Rest. Restore. Recharge…

For as long as i can remember i have suffered from FOMO -  the fear of missing out. Basically wether its work or personal life, I want to be a part of it, ALL OF IT.

In theory it seems all good but in practice when you give 1000 percent to everything you can really find yourself being spread thin.

As you read this, this weekend I have decided to do absolutely nothing. 

Rest, restore and recharge.

I am not sure how i will go with this as I have never been good at doing nothing. Because I am always doing something. 

I envy my friends who can spend the day in bed - lounging on the couch, just seems so foreign to me.

This weekend I will force myself to remain idle.

Rest, restoration and recharge - we all need each other.

Dress - Diane Von Furstenberg, Singlet - Sportsgirl, Black Pumps - Wittner


Florals? For Spring? Groundbreaking…

Miranda Priestley’s famed line from the movie The Devil Wears Prada lives on in infamy.

The uber bitchy, yet hilarious retort has been proven wrong each time spring has sprung - florals live on.

Shirt - TrueWorths, Skirt - Asos, Shoes - Wittner


A Look Back At My Hairstyles in 2014….

Not long now until we wave goodbye to 2014.

I spent the morning looking through some photos, appreciating the year that was.

It’s only then that it dawned on me that I had worn a few different hairstyles in 2014.

Which one was your favorite?


A Fresh Take…

I always feel so fresh and so clean clean when I wear a white dress. Its like a little practice run before the big day. Wink!  Laugh, but you have to speak these things into existence. Can I get an amen?

I have worn this dress before as shown here.

Right now in Canberra I am like a butterfly just straight blossoming.

Think the return of BOLD colour, BOLD print.

I have reviewed the situation, taken part and now its time to take over.

Sunglasses - Sportsgirl, Necklace - Gifted, DressAsos, Bag - Louis Vuitton, Shoes - Target

This Week I Am…

The best relationship is when you can act like lovers and best friends.

This picture was taken of my boo and I during the long Easter long weekend - as you can see our complexion was on fleek and we were all smiles.

So what do I have planned for the week ahead?

Over the last few weeks I have barely had time to scratch my scalp as my work life has not been for the faint hearted.

Quiet simply this week is the beginning of my strict monitoring of my work life balance. meaning I start at 9 am leave 5:30pm at the latest - no exceptions.

I was never one to subscribe to “work life balance"  - but after the last 3 months I think its time.

Not as young and energetic as I used to be.

Guest Blogger - Tendai Sithole… How would you describe your personal style? I would say my personal style is classy and sophisticated no doubt about that one. What is your go to fashion outfit? My go to fashion outfit is a simple pair of heels and a nice dress… I don’t see how you could go wrong with that combination. What are your must have items in your wardrobe? My must haves are definitely my Chanel hand bag, converse sneakers, a shift dress, pair of sunnies and definitely some lip balm ain’t no body got time for dry lips. What inspires your style? My style is inspired by my love of all the glamorous things in life… I don’t care if I’m having a bad day I believe it is key too look on point everyday, all day. 5 things about you that the world should know about you…Well I’m not that exciting but in no particular order…
  • Your innocent until proven guilty - I’m a law student going into my final year.
  • *Shuffles script** I’m also an actress… (Theatre)
  • Charity starts at home - I enjoy giving back to the community… This is shown through the time I give at the Red Cross.
  • “To Be Or Not Be? That Is the Question…I teach speech and drama
  • You seen me on the dance floor? I have mad dance moves.

A big thank you to Tendai for featuring! I heart her TWA, the versatility and uniquness of her style. I created this blog for "real women” of all shapes and sizes to have a platform to share their jaw dropping style. If you are interested in featuring, holla at your girl, here.


Hide And Go Chic…

They say that women that wear all black lead very interesting lives.

Think of it as camouflage so no one really knows what your about.

In my case, the red hair is a slight give away.

Dress - Portmans, Shoes - Wittner,