anonymous asked:

now that we've seen ot4 with zayn officially out of the picture, i really think z was miserable for a long time. bc yeah, having someone around who's super unhappy drags everyone else down, even when you don't realize it's happening. like, i was living with my bff and two other girls for about a year. my bff was miserable in the situation, and it wasn't until after she moved out that i realized it was making ME miserable too. things felt SO MUCH better once she was gone, even tho she's still bae

Yes, it’s like a group project: 4 enthusiastic people teamed together with one who has a meh attitude. And this is not about talent! This is about WANTING to do it or not. Sometimes the others have to do the task of the 5th member, sometimes what the 5th does is just not enough, no heart in it.

Naughty boy came in the picture a long time ago, so it must’ve been a hard time to process for OT4. And there was definitely some tension, throughout the Four promo, now everyone can do what they wanted.

Not sure about the price, if it’s worth it.. on Zayn’s side. But I’m not gonna comment more on that.

OT4 is together. All wanting the same thing. They’re happy. HL happy = I’m happy.

jjennacoleman asked:

Claraaaa and Bucky :)

(for this thing)

The ship is my: guilty pleasure because it can very nearly be WHATEVER I WANT

I consider this ship’s feelings: Mutual | Mixed | Strange | Awkward | Platonic | Sibling-like | One-sided | They don’t really like each other |

I’d consider the relationship: Healthy | Awkward | Abusive | Doesn’t work properly | They’d never get together |   

Children: No | Yes | They’d think about it

General Opinion:

VERY VERY VERY CUTE. Also, Barneswald shippers are probably my favorite tiny group of people on tumblr. It’s this weird understanding amongst like 30 people and ALL OF THEM ARE SUPER NICE. It’s like a beautiful gift that I’m lucky to have because I looked at these two characters and thought “hey, wait a minute…”

(But as for the *actual* ship:) I feel like, even though the basis of the ships existence is like THE CRACKIEST OF THE CRACK, their personalities are actually really well suited for each other. Because they both have low self-esteem and look out for other people before themselves, they’d both take care of each other and know when the other is feeling down. They’re also both incredibly dedicated people who love deeply. Bucky would love Clara’s independence, assertiveness, and kindness. Clara would love Bucky’s humility, bravery, and goodness. Plus, on a very superficial romantic level, they’d just sync up really well, and they’d know how to make the other feel special.

anonymous asked:

I haven't actually played through da2 rivalmancing fenris before, but given that all the other rivalmances I've seen are pretty super toxic, what do you think anders thinks about the rivalmance that got triggered by hawke being super pro Mage/a mage themself/actually pretty nice (even though they have no clue how to navigate the fenris situation)?

Fenris’ is actually the only rivalmance I’ve done, though that was a long time ago on my first playthrough (don’t ask the details, it was a mess getting there lmao. Let’s just say Hawke slept with 3 people and I had to make alt save files to keep from feeling like a horrible person). So I can speak to it a bit, though my memory sometimes fails me lmao.

But yeah, it’s not pleasant, though I’d say it’s not as bad as Merrill’s or Anders’ from what I know (I think those two are the worst, because they’re the most dependent on Hawke). I remember there being a lot of conflict in it, and actually really not liking Fenris at first because I thought he was always like that. He yelled at me for giving him gifts, and for being nice to him. I didn’t much like it lmao. People have told me his can be played so it’s one of the better ones, but I don’t think I managed it. I just remember being REALLY uncomfortable with all the yelling. I hate anger like that in relationships. Always. Angst is fine, but no anger. Antagonistic relationships are not for me. Keep them over there.

Anyways, I think Anders is pretty confused (and annoyed; we know how he feels about Fenris and the idea of Hawke being with him, especially since it’s implied Anders falls for Hawke regardless) by a pro-mage romance with Fenris most of the time. With a friendmance, he’s probably like ‘how can they get along so well despite disagreeing on mages?’. But with the rivalmance, he probably doesn’t see any reason why they should even be a thing. They don’t agree on anything that matters (in his mind), Fenris just yells at them a lot, they’re not even in a relationship proper till Fenris’ Questioning Beliefs in Act 3 (just basically in limbo), etc. And Anders, who is very close to a pro-mage Hawke (even if you don’t subscribe to the idea that he falls for them anyways), legitimately does not understand what Hawke sees in this guy, someone Anders sees no redeeming traits in.

And I think it does upset him, in a way. Sort of a ‘Hawke deserves better than you, someone who actually understands them’ idea. Whether that’s true or not is irrelevant because that’s how Anders would see it. He wouldn’t understand why they stayed with someone who didn’t seem to like them, or understand them, and it would frustrate him because there were other options, people who did understand and agree with them (potentially such as himself). Because Anders does strike me as the jealous type, even though he probably kicks himself for it every time, not missing the irony given his ‘you deserve better than me’ lines, and getting angry with himself for being ‘selfish’ in that way.

But yeah. Anders’ feelings about Hawke ending up with Fenris aren’t positive to begin with, but are probably worse in regards to a rivalmance, especially one triggered by Hawke being a good person, just pro-mage and wasn’t great at dealing with grumpy elves. It’s a very antagonistic relationship, and I think he wouldn’t like Hawke being involved in that, or getting involved in a relationship that involves near constant fighting just because Hawke likes mages. And this is all from Anders’ perspective, of course, in case that didn’t come through.

Tag 10 people you want to get to know better:

Tagged by: sealer-of-wenkamui
Time and date: 1:17 3/31/15

Average hours of sleep a night: I usually try for 12
Last thing I googled: Probably something neopets related…
Nickname: Mama K, baka-chan (dont ask about the last one LONG story)
Birthday: December 21st
Gender:  Female? (??????)
Sexual Orientation: Asexual
Height: 5′2!
Favorite Colour(s): White
One place that makes me happy: Anywhere I’m with friends!
How many blankets do I sleep under: One or two~
What I’m wearing right now: fancy tank top with embroidered pearls and i kinda took my pants off hours ago so just that aha
Last book I read: Ooh uh I think The Picture of Dorian Grey.
Favorite beverage: Shirley temples!
Favorite food: it changes! I like a lot of soft pastas and gnocchi!  
Last movie I watched in theaters: Ahahaha it was Home a couple days ago after my shift but I’ll probably watch something else after work tomorrow I work at a movie theatre I see movies really often.
Dream Vacation: Hm… Going to somewhere exciting with my friends!
Dream Wedding: one where i’m with someone that really loves me and I get to start a new chapter in our lives together. That or if haley agreed on a wedding one that was completely full of memes and friends and food
Dream Pet: a sugar glider!
Dream Job: Journalist ahahhahaha 

Tagging: fenharelenasalin lore-the-keeper-of shadowblackcat1000 quitebrilliantindeed elfpuncher actualklavier 

anonymous asked:

1-20 😎

liomg haha okay, better sit back because this might be a long one.

1. the meaning behind my url:

lmao okay, people have always asked about why my url is the way it is or why i ever decided that yes this is what i’d like to be known as on tumblr, and I honestly still don’t know why I chose this url. I remember just being bored out of my mind at 3 in the morning and just decided that I’d like to change my url to sexgodcollins and here it is.. I mean it’s eye catching and I think it’s true so I have no complaints haha.

2. a picture of me:

here ya go! :3 haha, this is the one selfie i actually like.

3. tattoos i have:

none! (yet)

4. last time i cried and why:

two days ago because i was practising a monologue in which I had to cry.

5. piercings i have:

i have ear piercings but i don’t really like them so i’m waiting for them to close up

6. favorite band:

right now i’m really digging panic! at the disco.

7. biggest turn off(s):

  • being too arrogant
  • being rude
  • generally being a dick

8. top five activities:

  1. singing
  2. playing guitar
  3. writing
  4. playing games
  5. practising my acting

9. tattoos i want:

something like this but on my wrist maybe??

10. biggest turn on(s):

  • intellect oh goodness
  • strength (and not even in the “oh look at how much i can lift strength”)
  • eYES
  • misha- wh-what do you mean I can’t put misha
  • just don’t be a misogynistic douche and you’re okay in my book

11. age:


12. ideas of a perfect date:

somewhere where there’d be no/not many awkward pauses, like a carnival or something. somewhere where we’d both have fun and just enjoy each other’s company.

13. life goal(s):

  • do crazy shit
  • meet misha collins
  • take over the world
  • smile more

14. piercings i want:

i don’t want any

15. relationship status:

single :)

16. favorite movie:


17. a fact about my life:

i got hit  by a car once

18. phobia

trypophobia and dogs

19. middle name


20. anything you want to ask?

do you guys need to know anything else?

loveandallthat7 asked:

I agree with your versatile versus primarily or completely mono-directional (so to speak) penetrative sex (presumably) post and that just plain logically, if someone says that people have to switch, that implies that they think one is worse than the other, or at least different in a way that is necessary for both partners to experience. I agree that is untrue. SO THEN my question is, what makes you headcanon them any specific way, if they're not inherently different?

i’m glad you agree on that front.

honestly if i were to get into it it would be a super long thing and i just don’t care enough to explain myself anymore. i answered this ask a while ago when i was being badgered for an answer. it may seem a bit hypocritical at times but again this my opinion that someone very explicitly asked me for. it’s also a very VERY light skim over of why i ship these two the way that i do. like extremely light. so it’s lacking and haphazard. 

my problem is with people attacking others for the way they ship a pairing, which is something i don’t do. i don’t have to accept the way people ship things but i never attack them over it or intentionally go out of my way to disprove them and that’s the main difference. 

randezvous asked:

4, 14, 32, 78, 92 (aka the thirst questions xoxo ♥♥♥)

Hahahaha thank you <3 <3

4. 3 things I love 

Food, music and girls 

14. Do I have a crush?

Honestly….nope I don’t think so. Thankfully. 

Got over my crush a bit ago. Finally lol. 

32. Someone I love

Ahhh Korra. LOL no but seriously I haven’t fallen in love yet and I would like to even tho im a little scared to lol.

78. How can you win my heart?

Ahhh. It took me a bit to think of something. There are a few ways lol. Being able to make me laugh is the biggest. Being a slight sarcastic asshole lol. But no honestly anyone who can make me comfortable in their presence is a big one. I have only met about two people in my entire life who i just feel so at peace with and one of them i had the hugest crush on for a long time before i realized it would never go anywhere cause she was straight so i was content with just being her friend since it is so hard to come across people who don’t leave me feeling drained. I like to think I’m a really caring person and I really do love more than anything making sure the person I like has everything they need when they need it and I like to spoil people I care about so as long as you don’t mind that or take advantage of that we cool lol. (also the stupid shallow stuff like liking video games and/or cartoons). Also genuinely finding me hilarious can help as well lol 

92. Kissed a girl?

ughh I hate this question cause its embarrassing but nope I have not. I have only kissed boys (before my acceptance of my gayness of course lol) =/// Wish I could find a girl to kiss lol

anonymous asked:


  • 1: Is there a boy/girl in your life? No but there could be *wink  wink nudge nudge* haha im such a nerd cx
  • 2: Think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them? A long time ago
  • 3: What do you think of when you hear the word “meow?” Meowing back in hopes of a response haha 
  • 4: What’s something you really want right now? To have all A’s and not to have senioritis; its way to harmful on grades xD
  • 5: Are you afraid of falling in love? A bit. I no longer trust people as much :/ 
  • 6: Do you like the beach? Yes :D
  • 7: Have you ever slept on a couch with someone else? Haven’t we all?
  • 8: What’s the background on your cell? A picture from two years ago of all my friends at a massive bone fire and me and my buddy angel being carried by all of them
  • 9: Name the last four beds you were sat on? wot 
  • 10: Do you like your phone? It may be cracked and doesn’t work half the time but hey :p its my phone so gotta love it xb
  • 11: Honestly, are things going the way you planned? Nope, not at all :/ 
  • 12: Who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts? Keri 
  • 13: Would you rather have a poodle or a Rottweiler? Rottweiler I guess xD Poodles and I don’t get along well 
  • 14: Which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain? No hesitation emotional
  • 15: Would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum? It depends on who i am with. Maybe zoo though :D
  • 16: Are you tired?
  • 17: How long have you known your 1st phone contact? About three years
  • 18: Are they a relative? Not really XD 
  • 19: Would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes? I dont know…
  • 20: When did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?
  • 21: If you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today? Hell yes, save both of us so much trouble haha xD
  • 22: Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? No she fucked me up too much for that
  • 23: How many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now? Omfg xD I actually have four and they are all band bracelets
  • 24: Is there a certain quote you live by? Actually, I just decided to use a certain quote recently “Carpe diem” Cease the day. Everyday I try to do something spontaneous random and fun.
  • 25: What’s on your mind? Why do I hate myself and still play League of Legends xD 
  • 26: Do you have any tattoos? Nah, but I might get a couple soon not sure yet 
  • 27: What is your favorite color? Red! 
  • 28: Next time you will kiss someone on the lips? I totally wouldn’t mind that xD 
  • 29: Who are you texting? I am texting three people right now. Noah, Lydia and Brenden 
  • 30: Think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch? Yes 
  • 31: Have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right? Oh yeah multiple times :O its really scary and happens a lot.
  • 32: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to? I have a couple ^w^ Abby and Tora are the ones I turn to the most though :p they are amazing ^^
  • 33: Do you think anyone has feelings for you? I think a person might but I doubt it haha I am not that lucky XD
  • 34: Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes? Haha no xD 
  • 35: Say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you? Honestly, I wouldn’t care I would be fine and happy they moved on

Thank you for asking! This was really fun ^w^

anonymous asked:

I was reading over some past asks and I was just wondering--are there any banned FCs from requests? Would you consider a FC like Darren Criss?

Who…is Darren Criss…?

*google searches*


Hey, maybe I could use him for Ben Daley? Oh jeepers crow thank you, thank you, thank you, anonymous!! You’re the best. THE BEST. 

-two minutes later-

Okay, so according to my colleague this man is on a popular TV show —- and now I feel a bit lame for not knowing who he was. I’m kind of a sheltered person in terms of ‘mainstream’ I think? I mean I do enjoy myself a good listen to Uptown Funk, but other than that, I have no idea what’s popular and what’s not. I apologize for my over enthusiasm, okay? I’m just one of those people who’ve lost the ability to can a long time ago. I shouldn’t even be answering this question right now because it’s 12 PM and I haven’t had my morning coffee yet and okay I’m gonna stop talking.

AS FAR AS BANNED FC’S GO… nah, man, we don’t have any. Gotta keep it in the right age range [18- 30?ish], that’s the only rule we’re really playing by. (Also maybe try and avoid ‘overused’ FCs? Which, I’m not sure who the overused ones would be… I mean… I watch french movies on Netflix. But according to my colleague there is such a thing as an overused FC. My colleague is Professor Morgan, btw, in case you’re wondering who my colleague is. I’M SO SORRY, I REALLY NEED COFFEE… nothing makes sense until coffee happens.) 

So to recap: I love Darren Criss (thank you again!) and no banned FC’s (if you wanna switch an FC we’ll consider it based on the application). I think that about sums this one up.

—Professor Ara (making his way downtown for coffee)

anonymous asked:

33, 35, 37, 40!

I’m sorry this took so long but thank you I appreciate you leaving this in my ask box 33: talk about what you do when you’re sad — I normally vent or rant to my best friend, Sabrina (buckbeeks) and to my boyfriend over text. I stay up later than usual and I sit up in my bed and think about it for long period of time.
35: talk about things you wish you could stop doing — I wish I could stop smoking. Like I stop smoking for like months at a time but I always come back to it in times of stress and it always makes me feel really scared because I am a hypochondriac and I always think I have mouth cancer or throat cancer because of it.
37: talk about someone you thought you were in love with — wow this is a loaded question. Well, I have truly been in love with two people in my life, a former boyfriend from long ago and the lovely boyfriend that I am with now, but I think maybe a year and a half ago I thought I was in love with this guy I went to school with when I lived in Colorado. He was like really nerdy but in the best way and cared so so much about people, he was really handsome and tall and was really athletic and talented and intelligent and charismatic and loved the best music, he seemed like the whole package to me and I really had the strongest feelings for him for the longest time. I thought that I really could be in love with him but I never really got to the point where I was sure of it but I thought about it from time to time. The way I felt about him was basically like he was so out of my league that it was ridiculous to think he should be with me because he was flawless and I didn’t think that was a very good way to think of someone that could potentially be my boyfriend. There was something between us and it was cute because he was timid and sweet but his feelings for me started fading once it got around the time that I would move to California. We talked after I had moved but it didn’t last very long.
40: talk about the end of something in your life — Goodness. This is a heavier question than the last one. I cant really think of anything in my life that has really ended. The way I look at things is that everything kind of develops into something else. Like phases turn into other phases, high school turned into college, college will turn into a career. I just don’t really know if anything really ever ends

anonymous asked:

So recently you reblogged a post that said that if someone asks you if you really think things should just be handed out for free, they would consider just saying yes, that person should get the thing for free because of human rights. (To be Cont.)

(Cont. ) yet a while ago you posted a response to an ask describing your view on Tumblr feminism, and you said that it’s ridiculous to ask that people who menstrate get hygiene products for free. How do you justify saying these two opposite ideas?

I think you misinterpreted what the post was about personally, but at the same time I could be wrong too. Valid criticism thanks for calling me out. I guess over all I agree with it circumstantially. But to answer the question: 

First and foremost technically hygiene products like tampons/pads aren’t necessary for survival. Is that a douchey point of view? Maybe. Yet humans lived for a long time without those products and did fine. Do they benefit you and make life better and more cleanly? Yep. Necessary? Nope. Falls under more of the “want” category versus the “need” category. I think they need to be waaay cheaper and not taxed, but I don’t think that falls in line with “basic human rights”. 

I took the post to be meaning stuff like shelter (a house whoa), water, and an adequate food supply. Basic necessities. Human needs. I don’t think we need to prove our worthiness or earn shelter, water, or food. I don’t think we need to show how we deserve the bare minimum of life. I’d say education falls in line with these things in the society we live in, but that’s a bit debatable. Anyway I took the post to be directed at when people disagree with housing the homeless, or the food disparity problem in the world, etc.  

My computer decided to bite the dust about two weeks ago. It’s got an albums worth of unreleased material on it. My best work yet. Luckily, most of which is backed up, but I am out a computer so I’m unable to dial the music for release. I’m thinking about starting an indiegogo campaign. I’m really low on funds right now, and it’s taken me this long to decide whether or not I should reach out to my friends/fans. I really don’t like to ask for help. I don’t know why, it’s always been that way for me. Many of you have helped me in the past in times like these. I tend to be pretty hard on myself about it no matter what the circumstances. I love to work for the things I have. A lot of my work that hasn’t been for other people over the last year is on that computer and my external hard drive.

I’ve taken on some new responsibilities over the last month, one major one being owning my first vehicle in six years, the other, paying for full coverage insurance. This and the fact that I’m waiting to be paid for some work I did over the winter is making it really tough at the moment to get ahead enough to buy a new laptop. I also owe just a little bit more money on the vehicle, and owe a friend for mastering on 3 tracks that is long overdue.

As you all well know, I’m not getting any offers from festivals/parties. So that’s not really helping nor does it matter because I have no computer.

So, this is me graciously asking for your help/donations to get my personal business back up and running. If you are able to donate, I am forever grateful. Your email will then be logged and saved in order for you to receive the album before anyone else. Anyone that donates over $100 will get some ultra special limited edition goodies via the mail before anyone else. I’ve got some big dreams/goals I will be accomplishing this year but I can’t do it without a computer. I’ve gotten much farther than I had imagined I would in just the last three months so I know I can make the rest happen in the next nine. I just really need a little help from my friends.

You can send donations to my paypal @ lebsauce@gmail.com

If you dont have a paypal and would like to donate email me @ the same. X💙

fight-survive asked:


5. When was the last time you wrote someone a letter on paper?

uuhhh like a couple of months ago. we had these pen pals from Greece in 6th grade and mine wrote me a letter two years later and i took like a year to respond bc i’m awful

18. Would you rather stay in or go out?

stay in, unless going out means staying in at a friend’s house with only a few people.

21. Have you ever snuck out?

uhhh ahahah there’s literally nowhere to go. one time I went for a walk at 2 am but i don’t think that counts. Funny story: there was a rise against show i wanted to go to but couldn’t and my history teacher tried to get me to sneak out and go anyway. unfortunately i was 14 and unable to acquire a car.

36. How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?

ahhhh shit it depends. weekdays, about a half hour, less if i’m not super tired (i usually am). weekends/vacation… uh i don’t even get ready i just stay in my pjs all day and drink coffee

48. Do you like yourself?

I’d say yeah but there are certainly things I want to do that would make me happier with myself, but that’s mostly just like following my dreams and whatnot. also i wanna get more piercings. tattoos too.

50. State 5 facts about your personality.

1) I’m fairly introverted

2) I get very very very excited about weird facts (esp relating to whale sex. ask me about whale sex. i dare you.)

3) If I like someone I sometimes get overly attached and excited around them

4) I’m a dog person

5) i am an artist (i think that counts as personality)

ask me things!