So it’s been since Valentine’s weekend that I’ve posted anything. I had gone to Hudson Mass to visit a friend. It was 3 gorgeous single women celebrating the single life together and with other single women met at the club.
We had an awesome time but Sunday eventually rolls around and me and my friend must return to Maine, it’s snowing so we need to decide the best time to travel.
While waiting I receive a msg on a dating site and instantly I recognize this person as a customer at a store I worked at just over a year prior. He was one that I flirted with and had hoped he’d finally ask me out. All he ever did was smile and shake his head.
He seemed to like the flirting but something was holding him back. Well that’s because he was married and even brought his wife and kids into the store. I took this as a sign to back off, so I did. No longer would I so outwardly flirt with him when he came in.
So here we are a little over a year since we seen each other, I open the msg. After chatting a few moments he did tell me he is now single and wants to get together. He couldn’t place me at first until I mentioned the name of the store, “yes that’s it!” Is what he said. I giggled half feeling like I was in a dream and half just so happy yet surprised, he is one man I really really liked.
I just felt a need to know this man, and when he wouldn’t even flirt back then finding out he was “taken” I was even more interested, not because he was taken but because he was taken and not even a woman like me would make him stray. Don’t misunderstand me..I don’t want another womans’ man, but we know people cheat and I was impressed by him not giving in and staying true to his family. I’m not the home wrecker kind of woman.
We planned to get together as soon as I got back to Maine. I would txt him the whole way back to let him know how long it would be. We would meet at the hotel we agreed upon.
Seeing him pull up beside me in the parking lot, instantly made me smile. I honestly could not wait to see this man again, and this time in a different light he would see me.
All I could think about is this is probably only gonna be a one night thing and even though I’d hoped that wasn’t true, I was just happy to be spending the night with him and show him how much I had wanted him all those times seeing him in the store.
Among things said this night, one thing that was most important was my question to him. “ u are single, right?”
His answer “ of course, I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t” made me smile but I couldn’t help but be skeptical if he was being truthful.
I had been lied to so many times by men in the passed 4 yrs of being single. They would tell me everything I wanted to hear. All to just get what they wanted. I had been so jaded but my heart loves to love so I continue on….thank God. If I allowed these so called men to ruin my heart then this man may not ever get to see my soul.
This night was definitely an amazing night that will never be forgotten.