also sorry I'm asking so many questions but why does the fandom love Sarah so much? idk it never seemed like any other bandom loved someone's wife so much. how did she help brendon?
sarah is just an amazing person. When Ryan and jon left she was there for him. She supports everything he does. She is always there for him and has guided him through some hard times.
And we need to support her. as you said so many fandoms dont support the spouses. It makes them feel uncomfortable. Some fans used to hate her based solely on the fact that she married him. And we try to now avoid anything like that. Fans forget that the spouse gets a lot of shit just because of who they are married to. And thats not cool.
She is also becoming more active with fans. Talking to us and its amazing. They are letting us into their life and that is amazing for them to do.
We love Sarah because of how much brendon loves her. And let me tell you, that damn boy LOVES her so damn much. He looks at her like she is the absolute meaning of life.
He fucking loves this woman. And as a fan, we better love her too. Because she is who Brendon listens to, who Brendon responds to, who makes Brendon’s life worth living in his eyes. She is who’s there for him when he is upset at 3 in the morning. She is who supports his crazy choices like going naked for a music video. She is who Brendon looks to for guidance and approval and comfort. She has been the root of so many songs now and so much of his creativity.
Without her who knows where brendon would be. She saved his fucking life. Thats why we love her.