hotfortomlinson asked:

As somebody who had dealt with an eating disorder for 3 years I'm really glad you're doing this and genuinely helping people. Back then when I was trying to be clean and start eating normally I wanted to relapse so I went to an account similar to this one for help or motivation to eat but they flat out told me they can't help me. It makes me happy seeing people take time out of their day to help other people struggling. I've been recovered for 2 years now. :)

First of all, I am really pleased to hear that you managed to recover, and 2 years in recovery is an incredible achievement. Secondly, I really appreciate this message; thank you. Although this blog was originally created as an anti pro ana blog, as it has gained more followers, people have starting asking for advice, and I am perfectly willing to help out where I can. Obviously I am not a medical professional, and on certain occasions all I can really do is urge people to visit their doctor, but in terms of general advice on eating disorders and recovery, I do my best to be as helpful and supportive as possible. I’m not recovered myself, but I am trying to get there, and I hope one day that I will also be able to say that I have been recovered for 2 years, but as I can empathise with the struggles and emotions that people suffering from eating disorders experience, I feel like at least my own awful battle with anorexia can at least be put to good use if I use my experience to help and encourage others. It’s disappointing to hear that when you reached out for support, you were pushed away, and I hope that anyone who decides to send a message to this blog, I will always respond, even if it takes me a while longer than I intend it to. :) All the very best to you, in your continued recovery. x

hotfortomlinson asked:

I'm really confused by your "when mum isn't home" post and music sheet,could you explain please?

No problem.

I transcribed the melody to the trombone part of that vine going around called ‘When Mum Isn’t Home.’ The sheet music is what the man plays on his trombone. 

That’s it. That’s the explanation. 

hotfortomlinson asked:

wait why do you not like stupidstagram

Well, I called her out once. And since at that time she had received a lot of hate, she blamed every single anon hate on me. She had all of her followers insult me etc.

I really never feel the need to send hate to anyone though. If i see bullshit, ill call them out to their face. I have no reason to hide.

I especially don’t like the way she treats her followers, or her arrogant attitude. 

hotfortomlinson asked:

Hello,I just wanted to tell your friend that they are beautiful and are worth a lot. Also that depression is only temporary,even if you've had it for years like I do I still find some reason the smile and you deserve to smile too. You may not see it but there are so many people who care about your well being,including me. Try to keep holding on and feel free to talk to me if you see this message.

hotfortomlinson asked:

To add on to your experience at the boys concert my cousin who is 12 and doesn't even ship Larry(although she doesn't ship Elounor either) she told me that she very clearly noticed that they were avoiding each other at the concert in Las Vegas and that they would even avoid looking at each other.

Exactly - you don’t even have to be looking for it to be noticeable.

The problem is, to the casual fan, it looks like they’re just not friends anymore. I can’t see how that would be good for the band’s image, but none of Modest’s decisions have ever made that much sense to me, so why should they start now?