guardian-of-the-cards said: Don’t go. <3 Better to be safe and feel a little guilty but you’ll be happy at the end of the night, then go and be stressed and scared and worried the whole time. *hug*

kitty-bandit said: Trust your gut. If you don’t feel safe and there’s no one you trust who can go with you, then it’s totally ok to bail. If you don’t know anyone and are uncomfortable, then you likely won’t have fun anyway. :/

thank you ;v; i didn’t end up bailing but it was a very awkward hour.. but now i have chocolate and my warm cozy bedroom so that’s good aha ;;;;;