♡ big/little get-to-know-you date ideas for NEW pairs! ♡

Q: I just got a little this year and I’m super excited to get to know her and be someone’s big, but I’m also super nervous. What are some good big/little date ideas in the beginning, to get to know each other?

A: I think ‘doing something’ to ease the initial awkwardness of a new relationship is an excellent idea! You might not be ready to just sit and chat over coffee. Adding a fun activity as a ‘buffer,’ while you get to know each other, helps most bigs and littles relax. This is hopefully just the beginning of a long friendship and many good times. xoxo ;)


♡ 48 ‘New’ Big/Little Things to do Together: 

  1. Shopping - of course! 
  2. Movies 
  3. Museum trip for a special exhibit.
  4. Campus concert or musical performance.
  5. Art gallery hopping.
  6. Attend greek mixers & parties together in matching costumes.
  7. Lunch or dinner at your favorite spots.
  8. Attend a football game & tailgating together.
  9. Go to a campus play, or other performing arts event.
  10. Mani/Pedis with ice cream, smoothies, or frozen yogurt afterwards.
  11. Amusement park day with a group of other big/little pairs.
  12. Picnic in the park - pack her favorite foods.
  13. Chic Flick movie marathon and slumber party.
  14. Bike riding - explore your area on two wheels.
  15. Take a yoga or other exercise class together. 
  16. If you have access to a kitchen, cook together - cupcakes, cookies, individual pizzas, gourmet salads, etc…
  17. Go to a comedy club - see if you have the same sense of humor.
  18. Study together in the library - help each other with tough subjects. 
  19. Attend a weekend festival or farmers market in your town.
  20. Binge watch a favorite TV show online.
  21. Paint ceramics or canvases at an art studio. 
  22. Give up bad habits together. Help each other stop smoking, stop drinking too much. or stop eating fatty foods.
  23. Get make-up applications together at a department store cosmetic counter. 
  24. Go for afternoon tea at a tea parlor. 
  25. Take a weekend trip together to the mountains or the beach.
  26. Go rock climbing at an indoor rock wall.
  27. Go wine tasting or on a pub crawl - if legal age of course.
  28. Take a jewelry making or pottery class together.
  29. Attend a local flea market and buy some vintage bobbles. 
  30. Give each other nicknames. 
  31. Host a poker night and invite some other big/littles to play.
  32. Fly kites in the park. 
  33. Plan an informal scavenger hunt at a funky used book store or thrift shop. See who can find the weirdest old books in different categories. 
  34. Go swimming or boating together. 
  35. Take a helicopter ride together. 
  36. Plan an afternoon of horseback riding. 
  37. Volunteer together and work side by side.
  38. Enjoy a trip to the zoo. Act like little kids again.
  39. Depending on what’s in your area, go to: an aquarium, water park, go-cart race track, mini golf, a zip line, ski slopes, ice skating rink, or kayaking/canoeing.
  40. Create and share a big/little Pinterest board together.  
  41. Try a new coffee shop, or new restaurant together, and have fun playing food critics. 
  42. Pretend you’re tourists in your college town and go on a photo shoot. Share your pictures at the end of the day. This could also be a photo scavenger hunt around the city. 
  43. Pick fruit together: apple picking, berry picking, pumpkin picking.
  44. Buy a challenging jigsaw puzzle and spend time putting it together. With a little wine on the side. 
  45. Write together as big/little. Write your own Life Plans and share your goals. Write your “bucket lists” and share your wishes and dreams. 
  46. Go dancing or take a dance class together. 
  47. Throw a board game party and invite other big/littles. 
  48. Swap clothes you no longer want. Have your own big/little fashion exchange. 

♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ 

  • For those who crochet / knit in scale.
  • For people who can do awesome mods.
  • For those who can do fantastic face-up with acrylic paint.
  • For those who can make bjd tattoos look realistic.
  • For those who can add realistic skin textures and freckles to resin.
  • For those who are able to sew itty bitty clothes for itty bitty dolls.
  • For the awesome seamstresses on Etsy.
  • For the wig makers.
  • For people who make eyes by hand and symmetrical.
  • For everyone who sculpts their own doll.
  • For those who can do intricate nail art on bjd fingers.
  • For people who make in scale, realistic props.
  • For people who make in scale furniture.
  • For those who create beautiful photostories.
  • For people who can come up with interesting, deeply thought out characters.
  • For those who have such a distinctive style, you can easily spot their work from afar.
  • For the talented photographers.
  • For everyone who bothers to do the math when calculating their price and not violate paypal TOS by charging fees.
  • For the sellers who take the extra effort of photographing their item in / on the doll as well as outside of it.
  • For people who are capable of handeling anon hate with patience and grace.
  • For those who don’t send anon hate.
  • For everyone who owns legits.
  • For those who risk their account by giving out doa invites to strangers.
  • For the companies for making the dollies we love so much.
  • For everyone who can apply eyelashes at first try.
  • For those who take the time to politely help out newbies.
  • For everyone who succesfully hosts meets.
  • For everyone who succesfully hosts group orders.
  • For the mods and admins.
  • For everyone who allows newbies to hold their doll.

Respect to these people and I’m sure I forgot many others, so feel free to add your own. Have an applause if this applies to you. You deserve it.



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Feel free to buy me any or all of these things for my birthday next Wednesday. A French bulldog. A fish. A turtle. The first two issues of @thepowderroommag . Lana Del Rey’s Ultraviolence on vinyl. #an abundance of MAC make up. New hair brushes and hair accessories. Wool and knitting needles (I want to learn how to knit) Undies. Ice cream and sweet things. Flowers. Eyelashes. Naked eyeshadow palettes. Socks with lace frillys at the top. Head scarves. Doll whose head comes off and it’s a knife. #illustration #art #doodle #list #birthday 😊🎨😘💐🎁💝✏️🍰🎂

  1. Nobody is doing better than you because nobody can do better than you.
  2. Where you are right now is a necessary step.
  3. Everything is coming together… maybe not immediately, but gradually.
  4. It is your resistance to “what is” that causes your suffering.
  5. Every day brings a choice: to practice stress or to practice peace.
  6. You are always good enough to try, and that’s what’s important in the end.
  7. There’s always something small you can do.
  8. Failures are really just lessons that need to be learned.
  9. Yesterday’s impossibilities may be possible today.
  10. What “might happen” can only stop you if you let it.
  11. The quality of your vision drives the quality of your life.
  12. You don’t need to get everyone’s approval first.
  13. What you’re capable of achieving is greatly based on how much you want it.
  14. Your best bet is to give yourself no other choice.
  15. You have to work hard on yourself too.
  16. You are stronger than whatever is troubling you.
  17. For everything you’ve lost, you’ve gained something else.
  18. You have made the best of some tough situations.
  19. Your scars are symbols of your strength.
  20. You are still here trying

20 Things To Remember When You Think You’re Not Good Enough

anonymous said:

After reading My Beating Heart Belongs To You and Rules Of The Band, I was wondering if there were any more cute/funny fics like that?

my friends are a different breed -lashton

Group Message Tag - literally everything in here

The Boyfriend Tag -lashton (actual story not a tag lol)

Band Texts (5SOS) -more group message ficlets (theres so many on this page and im laughing so hard bc holy hell)

(putting the next two here for future reference/people looking at this list and having no clue what you are talking about lol)

My Beating Heart Belongs To You

Rules of the Band

This seems like such a short list but let me tell you a thing. it. is. not. Hope these bring you much laughter xP


Figured tumblr could use this list! Full movies you can watch on youtube:

The Man In The Gray Flannel Suit (1956)

Bye Bye Birdie (1963)

Valley Of The Dolls (1967)

Waterloo (1970)

King Boxer aka Five Fingers of Death (1972)

The Forgotten (1973)

Rikki-Tikki-Tavvi (1975)

The Omen (1976)

Bingo Long Traveling All-Stars & Motor Kings (1976)

Assault On Precinct 13 (1976)

The Greatest (1977)

Wizards (1977)

Halloween (1978)

Nightmare (1981)

Losin’ It (1983)

Making The Grade (1984)

Angel (1984)

Ewoks: The Battle For Endor (1985)

The Heavenly Kid (1985)

Volunteers (1985)

The Hitcher (1986)

Raw Deal (1986)

Labyrinth (1986)

Three Amigos (1986)

Windrider (1986)

Critters (1986)

Student Exchange (1987)

No Man’s Land (1987)

Maid To Order (1987)

Can’t Buy Me Love (1987)

18 Again! (1988)

Prime Evil (1988)

Deadly Prey (1988)

Girlfriend From Hell (1989)

Shotgun (1989)

Tarzan In Manhattan (1989)

Young Guns II (1990)

Short Time (1990)

Halfaouine: Boy of the Terraces (1990)

Class Of 1999 (1990)

Firebirds (1990)

Lord of the Flies (1990)

Ricochet (1991)

He Said She Said (1991)

Popcorn (1991)

Dream Machines (1991)

Switch (1991)

Twin Dragons (1992)

South Central (1992)

Juice (1992)

A Stranger Among Us (1992)

Doing Time On Maple Drive (1992)

Poetic Justice (1993)

The Tower (1993)

Ed and His Dead Mother (1993)

Who’s The Man? (1993)

Fresh (1994)

Fantastic Four (1994)

There Goes My Baby (1994)

Being Human (1994)

Fast Getaway II (1994)

Sexual Malice (1994)

Greedy (1994)

The Chase (1994)

The Stoned Age (1994)

Angels In The Outfield (1994)

Lightning Jack (1994)

Dead Presidents (1995)

Angus (1995)

The Langoliers (1995)

The Blade (1995)

Shootfighter 2 (1996)

The Maddening (1996)

Ransom (1996)

First Time Felon (1997)

Mr Nice Guy (1997)

G.I. Jane (1997)

Titanic (1997)

Campfire Tales (1997)

Bongwater (1997)

Playing God (1997)

Executive Target (1997)

Ground Control (1998)

Black Cat Run (1998)

The Patriot (1998)

The Stalker (1998)

Tarzan and The Lost City (1998)

Celebrity (1998)

Always Outnumbered (1998)

Lethal Vows (1999)

Dogma (1999)

Atomic Train (1999)

Instinct (1999)

Thicker Than Water (1999)

Memento (2000)

Life-Size (2000)

The Art Of War (2000)

Whatever It Takes (2000)

Digimon The Movie (2000)

Nowhere To Land (2000)

Terror Tract (2000)

The Princess Diaries (2001)

Conspiracy (2001)

3000 Miles To Graceland (2001)

Carrie (2002)

Reign Of Fire (2002)

The Outsider (2002)

Run Ronnie Run (2002)

City By The Sea (2002)

11:14/Eleven Fourteen (2003)

The Recruit (2003)

Shanghai Knights (2003)

Grind (2003)

Strapped (1993)

I Do But I Don’t (2004)

Laws Of Attraction (2004)

Da Block Party (2004)

Back In The Day (2005)

The Deal (2005)

Deepwater (2005)

Penelope (2006)

The Last Mimzy (2007)

Guru (2007)

Super High Me (2007)

Crazy Waiting (2008)

Growing OP (2008)

Adulthood (2008)

Kill Switch (2008)

Ultimate Heist (2009)

B-Girl (2009)

Before I Self Destruct (2009)

The Men Who Stare At Goats (2009)

The Collector (2009)

Earth Days (2009)

The Joneses (2009)

Leaves of Grass (2009)

Deadly Impact (2010)

The Crazies (2010)

Lifted (2010)

Killer Elite (2011)

Gnomeo & Juliet (2011)

Tactical Force (2011)

Drive (2011)

Django Unchained (2012)

The Iceman (2012)

Bo Burnham - what (2013)

The Man From Earth (2013)

Animal (2014)

Flight 7500 (2014)

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favorite tv shows

• The Syrupranos
• It’s Always Sunny Side Up in Philadelphia
• 24/7
• CSI: Cheesy Sandwich Ideas
• Bacon Bad
• The West Chicken Wing
• Two and Half Eggs
• South Pork
• Friday Night Bites
• Sit & Order
• Doctor Who
• The Eggs-Files
• Firefry
• Denny’s Diner 90210
• The Walking Bread
• Mighty Morphin Pancake Puppies
• Eating with the Stars
• Denny’s Agents of B.A.C.O.N.
• Glee
• Eg, Egg n Eggy

  • i deserve to be here
  • i belong where i want to be 
  • if people are difficult about it they are scared and they should be 
  • i will make space for me and the people i love and the stories they need to tell 
  • i will not apologize to anyone for it at all