ghostbarn replied to your post:today my mom told me my habit of drumming on…
i vote that if you feel like it, drum louder. but then again my new years resolution was to ignore people’s social comfort when they aren’t deserving of it.
the thing that confuses me about it is like
"it tells everyone ELSE you’re anxious"
THAT’S A GOOD THING?
THEN MAYBE THEY’LL STOP DOING WHAT’S MAKING ME ANXIOUS?
there is 0 logic in “don’t do this thing to calm yourself down because it makes other people know you aren’t ok”
Especially because I drum MORE when I’m anxious but I drum pretty much all the time