Sorry, but also not sorry about the graphic. And yeah, I got freaking 1.5k followers on Friday.

Mutals in italics

RL friends: 
musthaveteaandbookssanjo-panda | sherlockinfez | squirrelseatpizza | thereilway | zombecorn (okay we haven’t talked much, but you seem really cool so I’m including you.)

Special mentions:  
aria-lerendeaircutiegabriel | cutiepiejensengabrielnovakgoestomyschool | kinkylucifer-foundyourblog-andmaturecasmaturedean popcorngabrielsamdreel | starlessdean

Richard Speight Jr blogs:
puppygabriel | bowleggedspeight | tricksterpeanut | evilgraphist | 67jubilee | dicksp8jr | fuckyeahdickpix | hellooooo-trickster |  ihaveallthesefeelsokay | richardspeightjrappreciation

acklesjensenadorkablejensen | afirecas | armellin | astralgabriel | asxualcas | awkward-fallen-angel | awwdorablecas | blackeyedbela | blowgabrielblow | blushingjared | bookkbaby | castielslight | catastrophicastielcherrymishchurchstielcrossroadscastiel | cuddlescastielcuteackles 

deanblossomdeanyw | destieldrabblesdaily | destielhiseyesopened | domcasdrunkj2 | drunksammy | dumbledorkdean | enochiansubtext | envydean | flowerscasflusteredjensen | flyingwithcasfuckyeahsabrielfunkoadventuresgreymichaelahellsqveen 

i-think-im-adorable-assbuttimaginecas | juicyjensenkinkywinchesterskittiecas | kittiedean | mooseleys | mysticdeanoblivatedean | padalecksigh |  praysammyquercusrubra | quirkykayleetam | ritualdean 

sabriel-otpsamtulip | savingchesters | shatteredcas | shellygurumi | sparksflycastiel | spnaturalcaps | starfallencas | starfallendean | starlesscas | stunningdean | supernaturalapocalypse | supernaturaldailysycophantcas | thekingslovertimelesscas | torchedgrace untouchabledean | winchesterscas | worthitapplepie 

I’m following a lot more blogs than this, even quite a few that I really like, but because of how many triggers I have not that many made it here sadly, but you can see my blogroll here to see all the other amazing blogs I follow.


My reaction to recent events concerning Ferguson.



To the anon who wants dating advice (from spitsphyre):

Give it time. I know this is dumb to say but life gets a billion times better when you’re not a teenager and that includes dating. Right now everyone is a mess of hormones and people are shallow. I sincerely doubt you’re as unattractive as you think you are but believe me, you are NOT going to be your hottest at 17, you will grow into yourself and find that when you’re in your mid-20s to mid-30s you’re so much better looking and healthier and confident.

And none of that matters because you don’t want to date someone who wasn’t interested in you because you’re not conventionally attractive. You Wang someone who will be with you because you’re amazing.

So my advice? Find something you’re passionate about. Find three things you’re passionate about. And throw yourself into them. Devote your time and effort into them. Learn everything you can about these things and meet other people who like these same things. Go to events about these things. Make friends who like these things. Through that network eventually you will meet someone who is right for you. They may not be your otp but they’ll be who you need then. And they may not be into your passions but they’ll understand because even of they aren’t directly tied to those passions they know others who are. And having stuff in common is the most important thing.

The last thing I can say is that forcing dating too early is disastrous. You will be unhappy and could be permanently hurt. I know it sucks to be lonely and feel unloved and unlovable but… By throwing yourself into relationships before everything comes together you really run the risk of pain. A lot of pain. You run the risk of creating a relationship with someone fundamentally unworthy of you but you won’t see it that way. You will see it the opposite way and feel that this is the best you can do and that’s just not true. You will twist yourself into pretzels for someone who looks down on you because you look down on you and they have no right to do that.

There are so many people in this world and you’re not going to have a chance to meet most of them but when you grow your social circle will as well and you will find so many better options. So my advice is to prepare yourself for when that time comes. Grow yourself as a person (not just get older, grow inside and get to know yourself) and when you find someone who is going to see the fabulousness inside of you you will be on their level.

I’m not sure I would have listened to this when I was 17 but I wish someone would have said it and I wish I would have heard what they meant. So… I’m saying it now.

Okay I wanna say something important about abuse.

Abusers do nice things. That’s one of the reasons abuse victims doesn’t leave right away. And one thing people need to learn is that the good doesn’t outweigh the bad. Being yelled at for 20 minutes straight for forgetting to turn on the dishwasher is not outweighed by a 200 dollar birthday present. Stopping when someone says no does not outweigh guilt tripping them so much they never dare say no again.

This is something that I didn’t get when I was living as an abuse victim, both from my dad and my ex-boyfriend. They were nice, they gave me nice things, nicer than I got from anyone else, that I still get from anyone else. And it took me years before I realised that this was because they needed to overshadow all the bad they did to me and how far down they wrecked me.

So please, if you ever feel the need to say that a character who others claim is abusive isn’t because they do nice things, keep this in mind.

I just hit a major follower milestone so I thought I’d do a follow forever!  Here are a few of my favorite blogs (I know everyone says this but I probably missed a few, sorry) Here goes.

A - D

accordingtoloreadaisinwonderland ~ alwayslovesam ~ army-men-and-legos ~ awincestblog ~ bittersamgirlclub ~ bloodysam ~ bloodysams ~ brothersintheimpala ~ churchsam ~ clairvoyantsam ~ daddyjared ~ dailywincest ~ delinquentkanine ~ desperatesammy ~ dicapriosleonardo

G - M

gadreelsam ~ ghostofpricklycactus ~ happysamdaily ~ homicidalbrothers ~ honeysweetsam ~ hopefulsam ~ huntingsammyiamsupernaturalsbitch ~ itsokaysammy ~ jaredbottoms ~ jaredpad ~ journal-of-a-man-of-letters ~ kjalyn ~ lowsodiumfreaks ~ lupitcnyongo ~ mishawinsexster ~ mostlywincest ~

N - S

nothingidputbeforeyou ~ rosworms ~ samcasdaily ~ samcest ~ samgirlsclub ~ samlikesdean ~ sammichgirl ~ sammyscreencaps ~ sammysnaughtygirl ~ sammywinchester ~ samwinchesterappreciation ~ samwinchesterblog ~ samwinchesternetwork ~ samwinchestersource ~ satherine ~ smmywnchstr ~ soulfordean ~ spncapsdaily ~ spnfans ~ strikemidnight ~ superchevyimpala ~ supernaturaldaily

T - Y

tenderjared ~ tenderjensen ~ uhwincest ~ worrysam ~ yourdarlinglittlesammy

Thank you all for being such great blogs and thank you to every single one of my followers!  You guys are the best!!!! <3