I need to make Tumblr a safe place for me again, so I’ll be taking a few precautions. Firstly I have added my pronouns at the beginning of my ask title and submit title, I have also made them my description on mobile, in addition to the bottom left updates bar, about page, and faq page where I had it before. Secondly I will no longer be polite when people misgender me, it’s not my fault, and I shouldn’t have to be polite when someone puts another scar into my skin, or one step closer to suicide. I will probably also post a lot less selfies, since I obviously still look like a girl, and the times I do I’ll add my pronouns as a caption.
Thirdly, updating my blacklist, which I started yesterday, but I’ll keep doing today as well.
Fourthly, unfollow people. I will be unfollowing most blogs I follow who doesn’t tag properly, there will be very few exceptions, and I won’t care if we’re mutuals, or if you post a lot of Richard Speight Jr., or Sabriel, or if I followed you recently, I need to make Tumblr safe, which means worrying about myself.
I’ll also keep my blog running on a queue, like it has done for a while now, since I might go days without going on my dash, because I’m too scared, if the other steps work, I may go back to regular reblogging.
If I still don’t feel safe after this, I will leave Tumblr. The most important part is getting people to stop misgendering me.