I refuse to give my baby formula just for a restful nights sleep or a night out.
It doesn’t agree with him in ways that doesn’t affect other babies. He spends a week writhing in pain. I never want him to have to suffer like that again.
People keep asking when I’m ‘free’.
I chose to have a child, I chose to technically never be ‘free’ again and going out to get pissed is the last thing on my mind.
Him first, me second. And I’m happy that way. I will get to go out again once he’s weaned. What difference does another 6 months make if I’ve already done 10?
If you aren’t committed to your baby and are just waiting to get out on the town again then you shouldn’t have had a baby in the first place.
People seem to forget its an entire life they’re moulding, its not a toy!