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fandomsfeminismandfelines said:

Is it common for INTJs not to like kids? I have a friend who's INTP and she loves working with kids. I just don't know how to respond to them so I was wondering if this is common among INTJ.

Funny story about my personal experiences with kids: I wanted to become a kindergartener when I was younger and worked at a kindergarten for some time to try it and after those few days I realized that I’d never be able to work with those kids around me. So yeah… That’s my personal experience.

Nevertheless I think that there are also INTJs who are great with kids! But I can’t tell you how common it really is… Which is why I’ll pass this question on to all of you guys out there: Do you like kids? Are you good at working with kids? Leave a comment!



(ps.: I hope it’s ok that I published this message publicly instead of answering privately.)

I honestly think it’s so petty that anyone would waste their time talking trash online about anyone. It’s ridiculous and pathetic. To those people all i have to say is I hope you realize how ugly, jealous, and attention seeking you look. Especially those people who spend all day preaching their hate, day in day out, don’t they have anything better to do? No one wants to see that!

Guys, if you see people ranting away on Twitter or Tumblr or Facebook or where ever else, please just ignore it. Block that person and carry on with your day. They’re just like school yard bullies: all they want is attention and for someone to notice them. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. 


Ah, October. The month of falling leaves, oranges and reds and golds, and that extra creepy touch that we all have a morbid affection for!

Just like last two years, I will be recommending one Halloween read every day of October (for your creepy pleasure!) If you have any recommendations of books for me to post, please feel free to message me!

Today’s pick is Don’t Look Back by Jennifer L. Armentrout!

Age Group: Young Adult

Genres: Psychological thriller, mystery

Creep-factor: 6/10 (For the voices the protagonist hears, for the things she sees that aren’t really there, and for the fact that she remembers absolutely nothing about her life, or herself. 

“Samantha is a stranger in her own life. Until the night she disappeared with her best friend, Cassie, everyone said Sam had it all-popularity, wealth, and a dream boyfriend. 

Sam has resurfaced, but she has no recollection of who she was or what happened to her that night. As she tries to piece together her life from before, she realizes it’s one she no longer wants any part of. The old Sam took “mean girl” to a whole new level, and it’s clear she and Cassie were more like best enemies. Sam is pretty sure that losing her memories is like winning the lottery. She’s getting a second chance at being a better daughter, sister, and friend, and she’s falling hard for Carson Ortiz, a boy who has always looked out for her-even if the old Sam treated him like trash.

But Cassie is still missing, and the facts about what happened to her that night isn’t just buried deep inside of Sam’s memory-someone else knows, someone who wants to make sure Sam stays quiet. All Sam wants is the truth, and if she can unlock her clouded memories of that fateful night, she can finally move on. But what if not remembering is the only thing keeping Sam alive?”

Check it out on Goodreads here

Happy reading!

P.S. Have you read this book? What are you thoughts?

Busy busy busy...

Spending some time organising my current projects and even putting some of my old we design skills to hard use… Clearly I need to dust those off more often! Hope you’re all having a lovely week so far and very much looking to some down time over the weekend.


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