I feel like you might be the same person, so I’ll start by saying that you don’t need to keep sending an ask to get answer… I have a lot to do outside of Tumblr so I’m going to be
inevitably slow to reply.
As for these asks, I think one of the best ways to better understand and more clearly see someone is to talk with them, get to know them, sit with them for a while and understand them. Look into reading body language, energies, “auras” if you will.
If you really do feel like you need something magick-related, try this:
Create a Tiger’s Eye/Fluorite/Citrine elixir and let it brew in the sun/moon for a day or two. After this, gather a small chunk of glass (you can pop a lens out of sunglasses or reading glasses, take the glass sheet from a picture frame, etc), and soak it in the elixir for another day. When the day has passed, and the glass is still in the elixir, cast a spell on the water and glass to create a sort of “seeing stone” through which you are able to seethe true colours of a person whom you look at through the glass. Take the glass sheet with you and hold it before your eyes as you look at the person; be careful that they do not look at you as you do this or they will see right through your efforts. This should work with whoever you want to see in general, or can be tailored to a specific person.
Here’s another spell you can do to see a person’s true colours.
I do hope this helps you.