i can’t tell you how many times i’ve spoken up about harassment only to be told to “learn to take a compliment”.  

since when do “compliments” intrude on my space?  what kind of “compliment” makes a person feel unsafe or threatened?

harassment isn’t a compliment.  know the difference.

"You fight like a girl"
Have you ever seen a girl fight?? They will tear out your hair and claw your eyes out, and don’t think once it’s broken up she’s done. she’s going to hold that grudge until she’s a tycoon with the deed to your building, and boxes to help you move to your new life on the streets.
Girls are scary.

I think, at the root of this whole “women aren’t real sports fans” debate is the idea that it isn’t acceptable for women to sexualize men even though, for centuries, women have been reduced to objects.

Too often women are written off as only enjoying a sport for the eyecandy. First of all, during a hockey game, there is no eyecandy - literally every inch of the players’ bodies are covered. Honestly, the players look like block rectangles with legs and a helmet. Wow, so hot. Also - female and male hockey players are indistinguishable in pads but for the occasional ponytail. There really isn’t anything sexually appealing about a hockey game to a heterosexual woman - other than the hockey porn, of course. We don’t sit on the edges of our seats through 60+ minutes of play to ogle the players. We do it because we love the game - for the excitement, the thrill, the beauty of it.

But even if a woman is in it for the eyecandy, for the ass and abs, she has every right to be a fan of the sport for that reason, among others. Turn on your TV and watch a few commercials. What do you see? Women in tight, short skirts. Women with plunging necklines. Women engaging in blatantly sexual acts until they themselves are the product, not the things they’re selling. Are men sexualized in the same way? Very rarely. The vast majority of society sees no problem in the sexualization of women because “it’s the way things have always been.” While that is, in of itself, deeply problematic, it’s a phenomena in our society that we can’t deny.

So why is it, that the moment men are sexualized, there is this outcry, this dismissal of the women doing the sexualization? People don’t point fingers at men at Lingerie Football League games and say, “You’re not a true football fan!” Men who go to Powderpuff Football Games just to leer at the women aren’t crucified. Male fans of beach volleyball aren’t called into question. Why? Because that has become the status quo, because somehow, in some deeply twisted way, men are permitted to see women as sexual objects, but women aren’t allowed the same right.

What, a woman who can appreciate the physical attributes of an athlete isn’t a “true sports fan?” That woman can’t know the game inside out, can’t play it better than you, can’t crunch numbers and spit out facts? Women are smart, women are strong, and women are also sexual beings. We can find athletes sexy if we want to. We have every right to sexualize men as long as they continue to sexualize us. And if that doesn’t make men lesser people, then why is it grounds to dismiss a female fan?

At the root of this debate is an issue of inequality, of the repression of female sexuality. And in order to solve a problem, you must always start at the root.

"Women can’t rape men"

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"Black people can’t be racist"

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"Women can’t be sexist"

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"stupid is an ablest slur"

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"Men aren’t all bad? Imagine a bowl of M&Ms"

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"We don’t need allies! Allies benefit from the anti-homosexuality in society!"

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"KILL ALL TRUSCUM!"

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"KILL ALL MEN!"

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"KILL ALL WHITE PEOPLE!"

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"YOU SHOULD KILL YOURSELF!"

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"People suck, regardless of race, gender, sexuality, or anything else"

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God's Gift To Girls [ Demo ]
  • God's Gift To Girls [ Demo ]
  • Mia ( me obv )
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God’s Gift To Girls

dedicated to all the “good guys”out there

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Sorry I have to break this to you, what your father said just isn’t true

there are more things to strive for in life for a girl than to end up being married to you

You’re a good guy, I know, not like the others at all,

oh so well mannered and nice, it’s actually a surprise

that you’re still on your own

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Why do girls only like mean guys, I am such a nice guy, but I’m stuck in the friendzone and I can’t get a date

Girls only like bad boys, I am such a good boy, I am so polite and I deserve to get laid

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Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, self declarded Prince Charming, try it, it won’t work

buy me all the drinks and tell me that I’m pretty,

the only thing you’ll get from me is just a little pity,

Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, I wouldn’t even if we were the last two people on earth,

I got a bigger cock than yours at home,

I guess you’ll leave like you came, desperate and alone

*

You’d pick every cartoon over clubs, but sometimes you just wanna watch sluts,

they don’t know what they’re all missing out on by not goin’ back to your place to fuck

You’re just claiming your rights, cause you’re so lonely at night,

so if you open the doors, and crawl on your fours,

she might open her thighs

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Girls don’t seem to realize I’m a good choice, I hate all these fuckboys who treat girls like fucktoys, while I know where they belong,

who said that I objectify them, I just wanna teach them that they need a good man a man like me

*

Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, self declarded Prince Charming, try it, it won’t work

buy me all the drinks and tell me that I’m pretty,

the only thing you’ll get from me is just a little pity,

Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, I wouldn’t even if we were the last two people on earth,

I got a bigger cock than yours at home,

I guess you’ll leave like you came, desperate and alone

*

I don’t get it why does no girl want to be my girlfriend, I’m the perfect boyfriend and I’ve got the right to fuck

Everyday I’m seeing couples, stupid fucking couples, sluts and stupid assholes, I’m am not like that at all

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Girls don’t work like that, nobody does, you can’t put friendliness in, until sex comes out,

no matter what you do, it’s just your hand and you, and a bottle of lube, maybe two…

*

Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, self declarded Prince Charming, try it, it won’t work

buy me all the drinks and tell me that I’m pretty,

the only thing you’ll get from me is just a little pity,

Oh, oh, God’s gift to girls, I wouldn’t even if we were the last two people on earth,

I got a bigger cock than yours at home,

I guess you’ll leave like you came, desperate and alone

 *

Oh you’ll leave like you came

and you’ll cum like you came

and you’ll cum like you always do; alone

x4

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You are the member of the year on YouPorn dot com

1. What they say: Stop jumping to conclusions/we don’t know all the facts about the shooting/this isn’t about race.
What they mean:

  • They deny the centuries-long history of violence committed against black people by the state, police, and the criminal justice system. Or, they believe this violence ended long ago and no longer affects us today.
  • They believe that black people should delay their reactions until the case is closed, which could take months or even years, and that we are irrational for being angry before then.
  • They are more concerned with the possibility of a black man doing something that deserved his execution, than the reality that a black man is now lying in a morgue.
  • They would never say something like this about violence committed by a black person (especially against a white person). White people have a history of jumping to conclusions and arresting or killing black people when suspected of wrongdoing. (Emmett Till never got to explain himself before he was killed in 1955, and more recently, nor did Eric Garner or John Crawford.)

Read: 5 things white people say about Ferguson, and what they really mean…

anonymous said:

Hello my fellow atheist fedora-wearing neckbeard! I too dont like women bwcause one time a girl said she didnt want to date me! Can uou believe it? Men literally have no rights anymore!

Actually, it’s more “I’m concerned that according to VAWA  policy a woman can pick up a fucking brick and coldclock a man with it because according to VAWA a woman can strike first to “prevcent abuse” and the defacto guilty party is whomever is taller and weighs more.

  • Offensive and defensive injuries
  • The seriousness of injuries received by each party
  • Threats made by a party against the other or a family member or a pet
  • Whether a party acted in self-defense or in the defense of another
  • The height and weight of the parties
  • Which party has the potential to seriously injure the other party
  • Any history of domestic violence between the parties
  • Prior convictions of assault
  • Orders for protection that have been filed by a party
  • Whether a party has a fearful demeanor
  • Whether a party has a controlling demeanor
  • Witness statements

Police must consider whether the injuries and the evidence corroborate the statements made by each party and by witnesses.  Police must be aware of the many strategies victims utilize to reduce the risks to themselves and their children; for example, a victim may strike in anticipation of the aggressor’s violence as a means to prevent a higher level of violence, or to prevent harm to a child or a pet.

So, while I’m not overly concerned as to whether or not a girl breaks your heart… It does in fact trouble me that if she busts a fucking wineglass upside your face and you call the police there’s a reasonable chance you’ll be arrested, convicted and cashiered because she cut her hand in the act.

Call me old fashioned.

obligatory Zoe Quinn post

first of all i’m not sure why there has been such a huge blow up over some c-list indie developer, but it has made for some juicy drama so i’m now all over it. it’s addicting and i can’t stop reading. 

so i did think the reaction against her was a bit overboard. but then i stopped and thought if the genders were reversed, there would be no question how people would react to that. 

now i just have no idea why someone who is a definite liar and abuser is being made into a martyr. by her own accounts she raped her boyfriend (she claimed that sleeping with someone who you’re cheating on is non consensual) and then she gaslighted him into thinking that the abuse didn’t take place. now i know how much of a buzzword gaslighting is on tumblr, but this is one of the places i’ve seen it. the logs speak for themselves. nevermind how she potentially exposed her ex to STDs and then lied about being tested for it.

some people say that her personal life is no one’s business. but if a male developer had done the same things to his partner, I have no doubt there would be cries from the kind of people that defend Quinn that such an abuser should not be allowed to be in the industry. 

so yeah, i guess her life is getting torn apart by this. but when you base your life on lies and abuse, that’s what happens. i also guess the goal of more women in the video game industry is being set back, but the only person who should be blamed for this is Quinn herself. but i guess people are so desperate that they will prop up any woman, no matter of how much of a fake and manipulator she is.

also what really gets me is that the guy she cheated on fell for her after discovering that she carried around a copy of Tractatus Logicus Philosophus in her bag. has anyone actually read the book? my ex gave me this for valentine’s day and he was a fucker. (not necessarily in a bad way) the book is pretty unreadable. the guy didn’t deserve what happened to him but i think it’s pretty clear he was a schmooze.

It really pisses me off that we’ve been conditioned to view men’s aging as attractive and perfectly acceptable and that their ‘flaws’ and blemishes are okay, but women are apparently supposed to be perfect and have perfectly smooth skin.

It pisses me off that a woman’s age lines are not only considered to be unacceptable, but that they’re seen as downright disgusting to most people.

It pisses me off that teenage girls with acne problems are seen as repulsive and ‘will never find a boyfriend with a face like—that invest in some Proactive,’ yet we can look past the same issues on a teenage boy and think ‘oh he’ll just grow out of it all kids his age have this problem.’

It pisses me off that women are told they have to be physically perfect in order to be accepted, but for men, it’s substance over outer beauty.

It pisses me off that we are taught to follow and accept a system that sets up women to fail miserably.

It pisses me off to realize that this is how it is for just about everything—women are deemed lesser than men despite all of their efforts, and men will always hold an advantage.

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