About Inspiration: an open letter to Jerri Chou and Justin Stanwix

I’ve been meaning to start a personal blog ages ago. Trust me when I say AGES.  Friends who have known my core since my school youth (Bruna Marchiori, Juliana Simao) know how writing has always been a big part of me, and an inclination that came to me somewhat naturally.

While I had the pleasure of writing about work topics for the Gust blog (@gustly), I had not been able to take it to the personal realm. So why did it take me so long? Well, I have a very wide set of socially-acceptable and valid excuses… the move abroad, the challenges of a second language (when convenient:-), juggling kids and career…but as the wonderful Jessica Lawrence said, the problem may not be time, it may be simply the mind. And while I still insist that, for a woman like me (who needs to sleep like a cat to function the next day and not physically attack others) time is a key variable, the mind has been the truly limiting factor. I’ll explain how.

Being a mom to two little kids is one of the most enriching experiences in the world, but one that can also be extremely narrowing. Young kids suck every drop of energy of your body and mind, every second of your day, and the focus you need to put into them (coupled with the focus you need to put into work) basically put me into survival mode for a few years. I read much less than what I used to; I interact with art much less than before; I barely get to my piano even though it’s in my bedroom, and I have very limited time with people who are major sources of inspiration in my life. Inspiration (or lack of) has been the problem – which can be considered a problem of the mind.

As many working moms report, as our kids grow up, many of us are able to experience some sort of renaissance… if and only if you hang in there and continue exposing yourself to interesting things that tickle your mind and take you beyond “baby land”. My kids are now 4 and 5 years old, and I’m just starting to experience that.

A few weeks ago I had the honor to attend The Feast on Good – an unbelievable gathering of people in NYC organized by Jerri Chou and my very darling Justin Stanwix. Having been invited as a guest, I had to go. And what I experienced there was an intense injection of overflowing inspiration for the mind and for the heart.  True awakening. The Duchess of Yorkville blog had been set up a few weeks before and I had been struggling to decide what to write about. I did not want it to be yet-another-blog about motherhood. When the first day of The Feast ended, I knew what my first post was going to be about (it still took me almost 4 weeks to get to it, proving my point about time being a real issue).

The Feast on Good was officially the kick-off of my personal renaissance.  It nourished my mind and my soul (not to mention my eyes, given its beautiful production). My day started with a great deal of insight from Robin Chase, founder of Zipcar, talking about the growth and evolution of community-based services. Between the testimonials of Cullen Jones (2x Olympic Gold Medalist), Roz Savage (ocean rower), Anne Mahlum (Founder and CEO of Back on My Feet) and Charles Duhigg (author of The Power of Habit), I got some much needed, unparalleled examples of will power and initiative. The effect of their stories on me was so far fledged that I had a hard time choosing how I’d first deploy those lessons in my life. They filled my heart with hope, equipped me to be a better parent, and left me with the unshakable certainty that I was capable and poised to do whatever I wanted with my life (and certainly get out of the survival mode which had characterized it in recent years).

There was one additional dimension to The Feast on Good that made it unique and inspiring. The content and ideas presented, coupled with the set-up and conference format, truly motivated people to connect with one another at a very personal and deep level. We live in a world where it’s so hard to make deep, genuine connections. We are all busy, constantly running, and most gatherings foster connectivity at the networking level only. My personal theory is that a lot of the depression we see around us stems from our unattended need to deeply and genuinely connect with others, regardless of utilitarian benefits we may draw from those relationships.

Interestingly but not surprisingly, the Feast on Good had a similar effect on other people I spoke with. While I seem to have been the only one among my new friends who derived so much value from it in great part due to the challenges of parenthood, others derived the same great value and impact. Each of us was at a different crossroad in life, in The Feast was, for all of us, a powerful injection of positive inspiration and enablement.

So Jerri and Justin: please accept this humble note of appreciation for your invitation. I look forward to many yearly personal renewals at The Feast!

And while I want to give credit where credit is due, why not give myself a tap on the back for turning that corner?

Welcome back, Ilana!

 

Apr 30 - The Feast on Good: Gather

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What: The Feast Worldwide is a massive, roaming dinner party for good that happens one night each month in cities across the globe. Every month we dive into a different theme, exploring the latest ideas and creative solutions to today’s biggest challenges.

This month’s theme is GATHER and we’ll be diving into the following question:
“How do we cultivate vibrant community places that strengthen development (culturally, economically, socially) in our neighborhoods?”

Date: April 30, 2014

Time: 6:30pm -10:00pm

Place: 862 Richmond Street West, Suite 300, Coworking

Cost: $35-50, eventbrite

Website: https://bentomiso.com/events/the-feast-on-good-dinner-presented-by-thoughtworks

Feast on Good, Jakarta, Indonesia

2.5 million Indonesian children who should be in school are not - 600,000 of primary school age and 1.9 million of junior secondary school age (13-15 years). Our conversations with school leads, teachers, volunteers tells us that its more than just not having access to schools (affordability, infrastructure). Source: Unicef

There are numerous factors at play here:

1.     - Children are not encouraged to continue education to be able to succeed in life. Indonesia being an Islamic country, families believe in the ‘pasrah’ (acceptance of one’s fate, belief that God will craft the path). In the end, parents want their kids to do well and live and most times, education becomes an accessory than an essential part of a kid’s life. Also, Indonesian parents put spiritual learning and learning of values as more important than education.

2.     - Children are not motivated to learn more. Learning is boring, playing is fun. Learning is taxing and involves homework, competition andpassive listening.

We believe that in order to make learning possible among kids who currently aren’t, its important to create a system that will help creating a desire to learn and ease of access to learning.

For example, kids here are visually driven. They need to be engaged rather than being told. We need to create an environment that gives them a feeling of co-creation rather than a fixed structure.

Kids love play – in the form of games, sports, trading cards, competitions. How can learning take what they like and create an environment that makes kids want to be a part of it?

WE ARE CHAMPIONING THE CAUSE OF:

Making learning desirable while making it accessible (low-cost/free) among kids in Jakarta who currently have the desire but no access or don’t have the desire or access to it.

With people’s help, we will create this exciting new system that is porous (leaving air for flexibility), that is fundamentally based on fun and play (motivating kids to learn) and is all-encompassing (academia and life lessons).

We hope to put forth the idea of gamification of learning which we can make strong and robust through ideas generated at this dinner. The step after will be to possibly start looking at partners or even owners to bring this to life. 

My 5th hackathon

I spent a whirlwind two weeks leading up to the start of school interviewing fantastic nonagenarians on the Upper East Side and the Bronx for The Feast on Good social innovation conference.  I met a sharp-tongued, soft-spoken French woman, a self-described “life long Kochloffel”, or “person that stirs things up!”, and a nonagenarian psychotherapist.

Any social innovation conference with a 1:1 Play-doh to attendee ratio is a winner in my book.  Working with The Feast team, we turned the raw anecdotes and life experiences of our stakeholders into the challenge briefs for The Feast Hackathon. 

Sponsored by Intel, the Hackathon took place during The Feast, which made for such juxtapositions as a table of iOS developers talking shop while Arcade Fire gave an impromptu acoustic show onstage, yards away.  

Our research highlighted aspects of our stakeholders’ lives (elderly in the city, or single parents in low-income neighborhoods) that deserve attention from makers — designers, developers, anybody with empathy and a bias towards action.  

We presented these specific needs of urban seniors:

- Reconnecting with communities surrounding interests and activities they used to enjoy in the company of others, but now experience passively and alone, as friends moved or passed away.

- Overcome social barriers that exist between them and younger friends or acquaintances.  Introduce the idea that younger friends and acquaintances are interested in what they have to share.

- Improve the painful research experience of families and seniors deciding on long-term care options.  Currently there is no unbiased, personalized, comprehensive, or crowd-reviewed information source.

The urban senior findings were a part of the larger Intel Data Challenge, which was one of five challenges presented.

In a slightly unorthodox turn of events, I participated in the Hackathon I helped write.  I worked with a brilliant team of iOS developers: Larry of House of Legend, Dana of The Melody Book, and Yeepeng of Cocoa Star Apps.  Over two days and really only 6 hours of total working time, we hacked together a demo of an iPad app we named Legacy.

Here’s a funny picture of me from the official Feast feed, presenting our demo onstage.

Here’s what I said:


Context for design: we’ve all heard this story: you grow old, you get sick. your friends pass, and you feel isolated from your family. But only dwelling on this story is dangerous.  because the danger of a single story is that it obscures all of the other ones.

And the older you get, the more you become a wealth of stories.  A woman I interviewed told me she only used her computer for one thing: to write down everything she wanted to tell her grandchildren.  

With Legacy, seniors don’t have to write their life stories alone anymore. Friends or family members request a legacy book from a senior using our application.  They send in questions to prompt the senior to tell their stories.  Over time, these compiled anecdotes become a book of precious stories, a keepsake for posterity.

 

What speaking on stage at The Feast is like: a blur.

A hearty thanks to Feast Hackathon sponsors, Intel Labs.  Above is Josh Bancroft from Intel, introducing all Hackathon participants onstage.

The after party was fantastic, too.

Feasting on Tech for Humanity

Last week, changemakers from across the globe dug into the theme “Tech for Humanity” as part of our new event series, The Feast Worldwide. 

From health-care systems to online education, how can we get the most brilliant makers, designers, and developers to work on what matters? 

We wanted to explore this theme with some food for thought. Justin Kosslyn kicked it off by sharing his work at Google Ideas, a think/do tank that explores how technology can enable people to confront threats in the face of conflict.

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By connecting users, experts and engineers they seed new technology-driven initiatives that bring real change. He left us chewing on the question of the night: How might we encourage technology that can truly change the world? 

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We were joined by incredible Feasters exploring the same question across the globe, from Mexico City to Kuala Lumpur. (Pssst…! There’s still time to snag a seat at Boston’s table on 1/27! RSVP here).

Many thanks to General Assembly for co-hosting, and to our friends at MailChimp for making our conversation happen. A special thank you to Rooftop Supperclub for preparing our delicious feast. You guys are amazing, and we can’t wait to do it again.

Want to join a feast? Sign up now for an invite when the next dinner goes live. Or, join us on Twitter to get full on good from where you are.

All Hands on Deck! The Feast Worldwide NYC

On a Sunday night in Lower Manhattan, an awesome group of changemakers and doers gathered for our Feast Worldwide dinner. The theme this month: “All Hands on Deck!”

We were thrilled to have two incredible people with us: Jessica Lawrence of NY Tech Meetup, the largest Meetup in the world, and Courtney Baxter of The Op-Ed Project, an awesome project to bring a range of voices to commentary.

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Kicking off our night, Lawrence urged the room to not keep women on the sidelines. Only 3% of startups are founded by women, Lawrence said. “That isn’t enough.”

Up next! Courtney Baxter took the stage to tell us about The Op-Ed Project, and the team working to bring a range of voices to key commentary. “Only 21% of op-eds are written by women…we want to change the numbers,” Baxter said. Specifically to at least 33%, which research suggests is the tipping point at which “we would feel a cultural shift.”

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Each Feast Worldwide introduces a new challenge that we mull over and workshop to move a project forward. Baxter’s Challenge for The Op-Ed Project was a tough one!

"How do we build on what The Op-Ed Project has developed to create a model that scales sustainably?" 

Cue the amazing workshop huddle.

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We were so impressed by all of the creative ideas in the room. And also the delicious menu. One idea was to get past the psychological issue that “I’m not expert enough,” by provide internal training modules to hone presentation skills. Another idea: Create a LinkedIn-style network to use past and present members as experts for op-eds. The night also inspired an idea for a speakers’ bureau!

We love when our gathering spark a new collaboration and partnership between awesome groups. And so we can’t wait to see what KIPP Charter schools and the Children’s Radio Foundation have in store for The Op-Ed Project.

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Want in? Sign up for the guest list at a dinner near you. April’s theme is “Gather,” and we’re feasting in: New York, Boston, Toronto, Mexico City, and Kuala Lumpur.

Special thanks to The Wooly for creating the delicious menu and to Photographer Bekka Palmer for capturing the night! And thank you, thank you, thank you to our sponsors LaunchLM and MailChimp for making the magic happen. You rock.

Let's Feast: Courtney Baxter of The Op-Ed Project

Each month we bring you The Feast Worldwide, a monthly dinner party-meets-creative-workshop. Over delicious food and changemaking energy, an awesome group of people works together to move a local project forward. This month we’re celebrating the theme “All Hands on Deck!” because every voice matters.

We’re thrilled to announce this month’s Feast Worldwide speaker in New York City: Courtney Baxter, Chief of Staff at The Op-Ed Project. Did we mention that she’s a rockstar? Courtney is also the founder of the street-art project Queer in Public and manager of community initiatives at Feministing. 

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The Op-Ed Project is doing amazing work to increase the range of voices and ideas we hear in the world. And we’re so excited to hear from Courtney about their great work to bring under-represented voices to the forefront.

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Over a delicious feast, Courtney will share one challenge facing The Op-Ed Project. That’s where we need all hands on deck. The thirty changemakers will team up to tackle the problem with creative solutions and move this project forward. Let the feasting begin! 

Photos by Baked Photography

Want to join? We’re feasting this month in New York, Boston, Kuala Lumpur, Toronto, and Mexico City. Sign up here for the dinner near you.

Dream See Do

Jeremy Berman and Josh Schwartzman didn’t know each other when they tackled the Learning Challenge together at the 2013 Feast Hackathon. But as seasoned entrepreneurs, both were drawn to the social innovation and entrepreneurship portion of the conference, and were looking for a community to positively impact.

“A light bulb kicked off right away.”

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The Learning Challenge, presented by MacArthur Foundation, brought together some of New York City’s most innovative people in the tech community. Their challenge: to design projects that give kids access to experiential learning and internship opportunities.

The hackers were also challenged to discover new ways to activate digital tools in the process of inquiry, discovery, and creation. They were also encouraged to explore ways to enable peer-to-peer channels and mentoring relationships.

Sound like a challenge? You bet.

“It can be a struggle in hackathons to get a disparate set of minds — even if they’re really smart — to work collaboratively and successfully in that kind of environment.” 

But for Berman and Schwartzman, the event brought about a magical meeting of the minds. “What drew us to The Feast [contributed to] a lot of what helps teams succeed, versus at other hackathons. By aligning around values and social impact,” the event lay the foundation for more successful teams and solutions to come out of it.

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The duo took what they discovered during the hackathon and created Dream See Do, a web app that lets people explore potential career and life paths, and help them find the job they always wanted. “We each had individually explored a range of related ideas a year prior to the hackathon. These concepts created the foundation for the platform and we were able to glue it all together [at the hackathon].” Berman and Schwartzman credit their hackathon team with help in the ideation process, with particular contribution from designer Rae Milne.

The idea was simple: Create a values matrix for the kind of job you always wanted.

OK, let us explain. First you enter your Dreams and favorite things in the Dream Matrix. Then you See what careers other people have explored with similar interests and values. And then you Do something cool — be it tackle a real challenge, learn a new skill, or take on a mentor-driven maker project — all to guide you through experiential learning for a certain life path to see if it’s right for you, reducing the gap between education and job.

When asked about the success of Dream See Do, Berman and Schwartzman are quick to mention their honesty (from day-one) about their level of commitment. “We’re both so passionate about this, and our complementary skill-sets and personalities dovetail really well. We have a great relationship with a few organizations now because of those initial introductions at the event, but also because they came up to us after hearing us present [at the Feast Conference.]”

Now, Berman and Schwartzman are looking for partnerships for school and library systems — other ecosystems where their career app would change lives. And they can see those partnerships on the horizon.

Want in? Meet Jeremy and Josh at our National Day of Civic Hacking event on May 31st. See you there!

You can also follow Dream See Do on Twitter: @DreamSeeDo

Backstage at The Feast Conference 2013, Anil Dash, Director of Public Technology Incubator Expert Labs, discusses how we spend our time online. Check out his awesome backstage talk here.

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¡Ayyy! Feasting en la Ciudad de México!

We were so impressed with the amazing feasting and workshopping at the “Embracing Empathy” Feast Worldwide in Mexico City! An awesome group of changemakers gathered on March 13 to drive the work forward of some incredibly inspiring people. And, of course, savor the delicious menu!

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Kicking off the night was Dulce Colín, the Director of Communications at TECHO, a youth-led non-profit that fights to overcome poverty in slums. We were thrilled to have them with us.

Next up! Erika Llanos shared her work at Cauce Ciudadano and how we can work to end youth violence.

Wrapping up the Feast, Claudia Rodriguez spoke about her work with Enseña por Mexico (Teach for Mexico).

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We love when the most intimate of gatherings produce some lasting connections, and so we’re overjoyed to announce the new partnership between TECHO and Cauce Ciudadano that grew out of the Feast. They both focus on different scopes of work but in the same communities. And so the partnership seemed natural and a great way “…to collaborate on a project to research community needs and opportunities more in depth…”

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Want to (dinner) party? Sign up for the guest list in a city near you! We’ll draw the lucky names via lottery each week.

Photos: Faridh Mendoza

PHA Innovation Challenge, Day 2

We woke up today like little kids on Christmas morning, eager and excited to see what the day would bring. It’s the second day of the PHA Innovation Challenge, and we’re back at PHA HQ with some of the most awesome designers, strategists, and developers around. We knew that in just a few hours, they would be presenting their ideas, many in working prototype form, to our crush-worthy panel of judges.

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Funny thing is that our hackers have shown few signs of sleepiness, completely enveloped in their projects. In fact, this is one of our developers, Aaron. He actually beat us to the office this morning, and it’s still a mystery how he hacked his way in (hah).

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Aaron, first in line for breakfast.

Mid-way through the afternoon, we were given a little brain-break by Adam Dole, Presidential Innovation Fellow. He gave a talk on health and information, setting the context for many of the initiatives that would be presented today. Before working at the White House, Adam was an entrepreneur-in-residence at the Mayo Clinic and could therefore relate to many of the strategic, entrepreneurially-minded hackers gathered. He reminded us, "Put information in the path of decision-making."

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Adam, all smiles to be supporting The Feast (and his good friend, Jerri).

Then, we Feasted like we have a tendency to do. Lunch was delicious and filled with bright-colored brain foods like these:

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We like to plate things.

Finally, it was time for the judges to arrive, *cue the music from TRON: Legacy*. Julie Moreno, Bill Dietz, Larry Soler, and Adam Dole came ready to cast their votes, excited to see the weekend’s progress. Our judges, at a glance…

- Julie Moreno, Public Health Advisor for Childhood Obesity at the White House
- Bill Dietz, Director of the Division of Nutrition and Physical Activity at the CDC
- Larry Soler, President and CEO of PHA
- Adam Dole, Presidential Innovation Fellow at the White House

See what we meant by crush-worthy?

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A dream team dedicated to ending the childhood obesity epidemic. (from left: Adam, Bill, Julie, Larry)

Our hackers really outdid themselves. Every team presented with such passion, and we were consistently blown away by the thoughtfulness, clever UX design, thorough research, effective use of data, and innovative playfulness that came of a single weekend. That being said, two ideas were elevated tonight and will take the stage of the PHA Summit this coming week. Our winning hackers will get the chance to present their ideas in front of an influential audience (not to mention share a stage with the First Lady herself!).

Let’s meet the winning teams!

Team 1: Superfuel
Aaron Franco, Nicole Cardoza, Kate Nicholson, Laura Uvena, Mafe Perez

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The superheroes behind Superfuel. (from left: Kate, Aaron, Nicole, Mafe, Laura)

Superfuel is an idea designed to help families achieve superhero status by completing a weekly dinner or activity mission. Aaron, Nicole, Kate, Laura, and Mafe came together through our team-building activity and meshed well from the start. They all share a passion for connecting families around decision-making and giving children agency. That’s where their app idea, with both a child-facing and parent-facing interface, came from. When asked what she was most excited for next, Nicole responded, “To present it in front of people who can make it happen.”

Team 2: Start A Garden
Ameer Baksh, Kirk Curry, Mandy Curry, Nicole Mercer

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Surprised and thrilled to be spending a few more days in D.C. (from left: Nicole, Mandy, Kirk, missing Ameer… he had to get back to school!)

Start A Garden is an idea designed to help teachers create quick, easy, and inexpensive classroom gardens. Ameer, Kirk, Mandy, and Nicole are excited that they’ve found a way to bring this idea to life, especially given the existing research that proves students who grow their own healthy produce are more likely to eat it, and possibly, to do better in school. Ameer was one of four high school students that hacked with us this weekend, effectively making him the youngest winner in our PHA Innovation Challenge. In a rush of happiness at the end of the day, Mandy and Kirk reported, “This was so unexpected. The 7 hour drive from West Virginia was worth it.”

Impressed doesn’t even begin to cover it.

We want to thank the ladies from Geeks Without Bounds for helping facilitate this whole process. It’s crazy to think that this weekend is ending, but we’re excited to see the roots of potential new solutions take hold. That’s it for now - stay tuned as we follow these projects through the next week and onto the stage of the PHA Summit! 

We're Bringing the Good to Austin

It’s almost SXSW and everyone knows what that means - parties galore and lots of digerati schmoozing. But what if you could make all that count for good too?

Through a special partnership, The Feast is making every mile you travel do good. It’s simple. Download the Charity Miles app to your iPhone or Android,
 walk/bike/run around to all the SXSW parties like you normally do. Every mile you walk will donate 25 cents to the partner charity of your choice!

If you want to track The Feast’s collective impact, enter Team code: Feast to your profile and your motion will donate to Feeding America.

It’s as easy as that! Help us spread the word at SXSW and beyond. The more people who participate, the bigger the impact, so lets take over Austin for good!

Tweet it out: 
Join @feastongood in taking over #SXSW2013 for good! Download @CharityMiles app + every mile you walk donates to charity! #hackedforgood

 



P.S. Going to SXSW? We’d love to see you. Hit us up at the FEED Sanctuary by flavorpill. We’ll be doing a special breakfast for all those early risers on Monday, March 11 from 9am - 10am.

RSVP here!

Gathering The Feast Worldwide NYC

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Each month around the world we gather together awesome groups of people for The Feast Worldwide, a night full of sparkling conversation and delicious food. Here in New York we explored the concept of gathering spaces in the context of Pioneer Works Center for Arts and Innovation, a creative hub that collects innovators, artists, and scientists in Red Hook, Brooklyn. 

Kicking off our night, we asked our fellow Feasters, “How can we preserve and cultivate vibrant gathering spaces?”

Luckily, this was when our amazing speakers took the stage. We were thrilled to hear from two people who are making great strides in two popular third spaces in New York City: Jenny Gersten, the Executive Director of Friends of the High Line, and Gabriel Florenz, the Chief Operations Officer of Pioneer Works.

“One of the first things that I learned about fundraising: People give to people.” — Jenny Gersten

"When you have different types of creative people next to each other, you have unlimited possibilities that you could never imagine." — Gabriel Florenz

Now, your turn! What makes a welcoming gathering place? What space do you love?

Coming up this month! There’s still time to snag a ticket to The Feast Worldwide in Boston. Sign up for the guest list here.

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Many thanks to our amazing sponsors MailChimp, Roquette Catering, and Pioneer Works for making our Feast Worldwide possible!

Join us next month? Sign up for our guest list in a city near you. We’ll draw names via lottery each week!

Photography: Bekka Palmer (@bekkapalmer)

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