There is no such thing as disablism, and it’s still not ok to be fat. Why are you doing this? What do you gain from lying? You’re hurting yourself, and you’re hurting everyone who swallows your lies.
Everyone gets sick at some point, true. But if you’re morbidly obese, you’re already sick. Obesity is a physical illness, but one that has a straightforward cure. But you don’t really want people to know or accept that, do you? You’ve given up all hope of changing your situation and improving your own health and quality of life, and you think that if you convince as many people as you can to agree with you, it’ll somehow make your beliefs true.
That is selfish and despicable. You’re an adult, but there are many, many younger people who follow you. You don’t care if they ruin their health and shorten their lives, as long as they fall in step with your party line. It’s not about them. Your actions are all about you.
Fat Acceptance isn’t a philosophy, it’s a cult mentality that kills.
if a fat person refers to themself as fat do NOT jump in and say things like “nooo you’re not fat you’re beautiful!!”
being fat and being beautiful are not mutually exclusive. many of us call ourselves fat casually because that’s what we are, not to get ‘compliments’. telling us we can’t be fat and beautiful at the same time only makes it harder for some people to accept and love their bodies.
The remainder of our lovely engagement photos from the talented women at Pinup Perfection. We had such an amazing time and ended up with some great memories to document what’s been a really special year in so many ways! I loved incorporating some Disney-ish elements to my warddrobe and I was happy to wear my pink heart dress from my dear Lisa at Dash A.
A couple of years ago I never would’ve dared posting a pic like this of myself. But thanks to body positivity and all of the other lovely fat babes on here, I’ve learned to love and accept my body for what it is. It’s beautiful. It’s limitless. I had accepted the idea that fat was ugly, lazy, unhealthy, and undesirable. I had all these ideas about myself and how I was just because I happened to be fat. Well today I say fuck that, and no more. I am not ugly, lazy, unhealthy or undesirable. I am a beautiful intelligent caring and curious young woman. I deserve to love myself and my body the way it is. And so do all of you other fat girls who were told all the same things I was. FUCK what they say about us, FUCK societies views on fat women. We are SUPREME QUEENS and anyone who says otherwise can kiss my FAT black ass ✌️