So I was talking with this guy I like, and btw he’s always a really nice guy.
He asked me what my fav band was, and I told him BVB, and the apparently searched them up, and say how they looked like.
First text: They look like girls.
Now I was a little upset, and we kept on talking about them, but then he decides to use God against me.
I am Christian, but he is hardcore Christian.
So he texts me this:
"how do u survive listening to music that turns ur eyes away from God? those who say they are christian but do not show it are hypocrites, and will be judge accordingly"
and other things like “so ur ready to give ur life to eternal torment in exchange for ur music?”
(yes he actually said these things it’s like he’s the fucking bible)
And at this point I was like ‘total bullshit’. Just because I like a type of music does not determine how faithful I am to God. Yes, I swear and listen to what society deems as ‘emo’ music, but that does not fucking mean I am a bad person.
This is the reason why I hate sharing what I like
because people will judge me
and this is not the first time this has happened, and certainly not the worst.
To be honest, I will not give one shit if you listen to Justin Bieber or One Direction. I will decide if I like you based on your personality.
Too many people judge based on the things you like.
And it’s not ok.
This needs to stop.