ending-friendships

Know that the universe has your best interest at heart. With the eclipse energy still around us many things are coming to and end. Don’t be surprised if people leave your life without warning. It’s Happening to so many people! The way to look at it is to know these people no longer serve you and are making way for better people more suited to your journey on this planet at this time. Stay grounded, and stay connected.

Alright since I’m kinda having an anxiety moment about this ANYWAY I’d like to make something clear right now:

IF I GET ANNOYING BECAUSE OF LIKING DBZ PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TELL ME. I HAVE LITERALLY HAD PEOPLE END FRIENDSHIPS WITH ME BECAUSE OF THIS AND I DON’T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN AGAIN.

I PROMISE I WILL STFU IF YOU TELL ME TO.

The idea of me being left alone by people just got into my mind right now and I just realized why they keep on doing that. It is because I’m vulnerable and fragile, I can shatter into pieces and break down anytime. They want me to die the shit out and won’t even crave for some really great friendship with me because they just want me to get hurt more and more. But the fact that I’m really used to getting hurt, am not that kind of person who’d do some cuts or kill himself. Been there, done that. Honestly I tried doing it once. But then I thought that I would get nothing but still more problems if I just kill myself. They won’t be solved by murdering one’s self. Rather face them head on and live a new life. Thus, those who ended up our friendship, oh well, I still treat them as friends, but our friendship’s over, I think. Well at least that’s what I know. I won’t bother bringing back those friendships anymore. They won’t bother, too, anyway. So might as well live life without them. I’m used to it.
But to be honest, it’s actually a bit boring without them, without talking to someone who knows almost half of your life, without laughing with the same people, without talking nonsense random shit with those same people, and yea, I feel lonely but never mind the loneliness I can live with it.
—  F.R.I.E.N.D.S. ep 2; lm

So i’m a rather realistic shipper. I don’t see the ‘heart eyes’ nearly as much as some of my fellow shipmates do, at least not in season 1. However, I don’t know how anyone can say that Bellamy and Clarke are just platonic. They aren’t romantic either, they are that weird unnamed middle ground between platonic and romantic…I don’t know about you guys, but i’ve had several a platonic relationship in my 22 years of living and I’ve never felt like my “friend” completed me.

a friend of mine…told me something her mom said to her before she pursued a relationship with her husband…they were in that weird unnamed middle ground. She told her to either marry him or end their friendship…because they were too close for just friends and her mom knew that if they didn’t move forward in their relationship, if one or both decided to have a romantic relationship with someone other than each other. One or both of them would be extremely hurt and the romantic relationship would neither prosper nor be healthy.

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thoroughlycollected asked:

Hi! If there isnt something similar yet I'd like to request a Mark/Jaebum fic about anonymous notes. It can be canon or an au; the main point would just be that one of them always leaves little notes and doodles in a specific place; the other notices and reads them and one day finally responds and they end up communicating regularly via secret messages. If they end up meeting that'd be cute too! I'd also like to ask that even if this focuses on their friendship, they end up as a romantic couple.

Warnings: Well, these kids really need to learn to censor their language when they’re in public… 

Word Count: 1321<— yoo it’s 321 that’s pretty cool, it’s a sign, I’m pretty cool

Author: Chewy

Stud Muffin’s debut fic! ie. the Southern-American-Asian girl writes (with an accent sometimes, please forgive mistakes). Hope ya’ll like it; read with swag. B^)

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dxlliances asked:

duuuude thranduil

yoOO!O!O!

  • their blog url
    “sassyfab” or “partydad” i cant decide
  • the kind of posts they reblog
    himself. the whole time. exclusively. all the thranduil blogs on here? at least one of them is run by him. 
  • the first person they followed
    legolas, guilt tripping him into reblogging his selfies. also bard who hes bffs with, probably tags him in everything he posts and thinks bard is ending their friendship when he forgets to reblog a selfie
  • what kind of theme they’d have
    something in pastel blue shades probably with a glitter cursor and multiple columns bc everyone who comes on his blog shall see his face 5678 times
  • what kind of text posts they make at 2am
    “i have 5688 followers but only 5600 likes on my selfie… yall fake. yall think im ugly. i cant trust anyone ever again </3″

ty!!!! <3

that quote is how all my friendships end, they always get complacent and don’t change/grow and lack the desire to, i can’t deal with people like that

The biggest lesson I’ve learned this year
Is that no one is really your friend
Or truly loves you
Until they’ve seen every dark shadow inside you

And stayed.

—  "I’ll be there for you" // a story a day #32 by d.y.
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Cause you are my best friend 
And you are where my heart is 
And I know at the day’s end 
I get to come home to you
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Allison and Lydia learning and growing through their friendship with each other.