So today, I got sent these from one of Emma’s friends. It is true, I called her an illiterate hoe. Why? 

Because I am trully pissed at this whole situation. I know what you guys are going to say, “That gives you no right to call her an illiterate hoe.”

You’re right. I have no right to call her an illiterate hoe. Yet I was really fucking angry and that’s pretty much why. I apologise, my bad. I didn’t mean to be that rude.

But let’s just get on the situation.

Today I got on twitter and saw this girl who stood up for the lady on the picture and told Emma that what she’s done it was not right.

Emma replied to her and then the poor girl got ashamed and kind of took a step back.

And that’s when silly me got in the bullshit.

I stood up for the girl and congratulated her for having the guts to tell her that.

And then I started to think about it.

You know what? I am rude. But I had my reasons.

Emma had no reasons to take that picture and quickly upload it to twitter where thousands of people can see it. She didn’t take a minute to put herself in the lady’s place and think - Man, if that would be me I’d definitely feel like bullshit. 

And then I thought,

Who the fuck are you, Emma, to make fun of someone’s effort and struggle. You don’t know what she’s been through. And as her friend told me, “You don’t know her”. Well, Emma didn’t either know that lady. 

And I’m making this, because I know there are plenty of girls in this fandom with low self esteem. And that gives her no right to laugh. 

Because she’s not fucking perfect either. 

You are free to send me any thoughts of yours. Even hate is welcomed.

Have a nice day.

Finn Harries - Girlfriend

Some people are asking me about Emma and Finn and I’ll answer according what I know. I mean according my own conclusions. You have the right to take yours!

  • Is Emma dating Finn?

Yes. Emma is Finn’s girlfriend.

  • Where did they meet? Since when are they dating?  

Well, I THINK they met at Casper Lee’s Bday party in April, last year. 

In May they started posting similar photos on Instagram  and putting similar captions, too.
Then, In June they were filmed in Jamal Edwards TEDxTalk holding hands. If you want, this video is on Youtube and you can watch.
In August they went to Ibiza for a romantic holidays and you can see Emma in Mr Ben Brown video, when The Team Mother Tuckers returned from India. There are another one where you can see someone with Finn but you can’t see who, this one was posted by Mr Ben Brown and it is called Reunited with Jack and Finn. 

Concluding I think they are danting since May or June 2013.

  • Who is she?

Emma Bates is a student and a blogger. She is studing Politics, History and War studies ( it means International Relations)  at Kings College London. She is the same age as Finn and lives in Fulham. 
Basicly, in her blog she posts about lifestyle, trips, food and holidays.
If you check her blog you will find more information about her and lots of photos where you can see Finn’s shirts and rings, Ella ( Jack’s girlfriend) and Charly’s photos and many other things. You will see some deleted coments,too. Lot of fans do not understand that they are talking about her private life and push the limits of good breeding with her.

  • Why some people don’t like her? 

It comes from a passed situation. The truth is that she was not politically correct to a girl at the gym, and because of that she was severely criticized by the fans of Finn. Sincerely, in some cases, was exaggerated what fans did, I mean some people just threatened her with promises of death and send her some extreme hatred.

It is important to emphasize that the picture of the girl was quickly removed. What makes me defend that she thought about her attitude. 
I repeat: It was past!

Recently she answered a question stating that she is not this bad  and rude person as many people think.

  • Are they in Amsterdam? 

The answer is yes,too. Right now (2/02/2014) she’s in Amsterdam with Finn and I think she will blog about this trip very soon.

  • What about Finn?

Finn is more conservative than Emma although repeatedly surprises fans with very similar pictures like her.
In December (I’m not sure) he posted a photo of her in his Facebook with a cute caption. He said “Dinner with this munchkin." but quickly put it in private or remove.

In all the photos he seems to be happy. Smiling and enjoying.

  • My honest opinion.

We are fans so we like to be informed. And I think Jack, Finn, Ella and Emma understand that. But the desire to know the things does not imply promises of eternaly hate, threats or lacks of respect for Emma. Each has the right to have an opinion but insult and offend is not a good civic attitude.

Liking or disliking it try to be respectful and understand the distance they impose, please. This is their private life. Be careful about what you say! They are people like us and they have feelings and heart.

Everyone can draw their own conclusions. We can not think that they do not read certain things and comments, they read and sometimes it is not favorable.

I believe that they keep their personal life private to protect the people they love. To protect them from this uncertain hatred.

Is more interesting when it’s a mystery!

This is her instagram; http://instagram.com/emmashbates 

Be fans not haters!
I leave the tip! 


anonymous said:

It was charly cox who messaged you, she posted a pic of herself with her middle finger up and put a caption that said fuck the haters and Emma liked and re tweeted it. I think its great what you did and I don't think Finn is as innocent as he seems anymore. x

Yes, I noticed that the just the night after that happened. What a skank.

What do you mean he’s not as innocent as he seems anymore? xx

anonymous said:

It's hilarious how her friend told you that you're making yourself look silly when she's making a clown out of herself defending a girl who makes fun of someone who's trying to lose weight. Oh and her boyfriend is against bullying.

Cheers to this message, my friend.