I admire that Yunho and Changmin have learned over time to let shit go. They don’t dwell on old shit hoping that yesterday comes back, they are planning their lives 10 to 15 years from this moment now. They don’t let themselves be defined only by their past, they work harder to show you a better future. Isn’t that a great moral to live by? Being able to look forward and let go of your regrets to embrace whats yet to come; to see that no matter how much bullshit you’ve been through, you don’t need to shed tears over spilled milk anymore. isn’t that what we all should do?