countingbothers replied to your post: My husband& I are both active duty ,I am Air Force he is Army.We have been married for 4 years and I just found out that I am now pregnant with our 1st child which for me that means I leave back to Texas & He is getting deployed. Well a year into our marriage he cheated on me when he was deployed and I took him back. Now right before he has to leave, he admitted to me that he has cheated again,but doesn’t want me to leave him. idk what to do ?

Humans are creatures of habit, he’ll continue to do it, and her taking him back will just reward his bad behavior.

I don’t know if it works out as a reward, but it definitely lets him know that he can pretty much get away with anything.