Don’t confuse being busy with making progress.

William Arruda

Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. We do things intentionally or subconsciously that impede rather than advance our success. The first step in eliminating these destructive behaviors is acknowledging them. Here are eight of the most common habits that destroys your success.

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As of right now I'm so confused in my "love life" and I seek advice, I've read your answers and thought why not ask u?! So currently there's this boy who talks to me 24/7 for a few days straight and then he stops and so on. Sometime I feel like he post things on purpose for me too see and today he walked me to my car and class and told me whenever he calls me names it's his way of saying hi but I'm really confused on whether he wants to be friends or more??

I hate indirectness and nearly transparent signals. I get to the breaking point of confused when I’m in these situations, and usually just ask who I’m talking to what we are to each other. Nervous flirtation happens, and it’s cute for a while, but if they are very discreet about their feelings and intentions, and go periods without even talking to you - you easily misinterpret and assume they don’t want the same as you. 

My best advice is to take the initiative to be the direct one. Like inviting him to do something in a more date like environment. See how he takes it, if he is up for it - see where it goes. It’s totally alright to outright ask someone if you are just friends or if there is more interest. Knowing where you stand with someone instead of being stuck dancing around forever unclear of the nature of your relationship is important - i think anyways. <3