INFJs spend much of their time pondering their own complexity. While everyone has different sides to them, it is the INFJ’s obsessive exploration of their own psyche that makes them seem stranger to themselves and/or others. It is the thinking that makes it so. Remember this whenever you feel the need to impress anyone by being something you’re not. What you are is complex, and no one has the right to make you feel like that is not enough. You can be whoever you want. It is the thinking that makes it so.