chatdimuse

gluemesunday replied to your postI probably shouldn’t go to California just to see…

Why not? Anything to lose?

chatdimuse replied to your postI probably shouldn’t go to California just to see…

Depends if you think she is worth the overall material and non-material expense of the trip.

So I’m going to be in Texas this summer, and I was thinking of stopping in California on my way home to hang out with some friends and, as an added bonus, see this ex of mine. Last time I was in California, we hung out (very innocently) even though she had a boyfriend. Not sure what her status is now, but she wanted me to come through and hang out again if I got the chance. The friends I was going to stay with are going to be in Cabo, though. That means if I stop in California, it’s mostly just to see her. I’m thinking it’s probably not a good idea.

Even if the cost of the stop over is negligible, the personal cost of seeing an unavailable ex is probably enough of a deterrent. Right? Thanks for helping me think it through!