Ok so after much prompting to try and make mom understand how I feel I have concluded that she will never understand a damn thing I say to her and instead repeat the phrase “go see a doctor” over and over until I want to throw the anger tin at her but dont because she’s not nearly worth it
A list of gems aka things mom said to me from this argument:
- sometimes I think you go on tumblr and you want to be special you want to be one of those people who are different all this asexual agender its just for attention
- you have no fucking idea mate if you had my childhood you would fucking break you dont know how easy you have it
-I had a daughter and one day youre agendet asexual where did she go? What happened to her?
- go talk to your friends or something theyre mentally ill
- I told you I’d go to the doctor with you!! (She didnt)
- what do you expect ME to do
- no [I say something] no [I say something else] no
My 16 yr old brother stepped in and defended me which is good because I was crying on the floor at the time
Basically mom ended the argument with the idea that I dont have a fucking clue, my problems arent nearly as bad as her childhood and she’s sick of hearing me selfishly talk about my feelings, that her problems were worse than mine and I would have broken so she’s somehow such a brave brave soul for getting up and providing for her children wow round of applause for the passive agressive defensive faux pagan who is periodically racist and generally hard-headed and assholeish good job in helping -82822%
But baby and I got more aquainted afterward. Nothing like a nice brick wall to better acquaint a kid and their baseball bat.
Also my little brother was v helpful shoutout to him for stepping in because mom actually listened to him