No one is born a DIFFICULT PERSON. Everyone was born as a child of God. You only become a difficult person because of your LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES. These circumstances might have hurt you and gave you extraordinary pain that you can’t forget, thus making you a HURT PERSON with unresolved issues/problems.

Because your still HURT, you tend to do things unconsciously:
1. Hurting people hurt other people.
- When other people hurt you, pause and ask, why did that person hurt you?
- Hurt people have unresolve issues/problems that are haven’t healed yet, thus, they will continue to hurt other people
2. Hurting people hurt easily
- They tend to think that people are hurting them.
- They easily judge that others are hurting them because they are already hurt - there is hurt to begin with. They are often confused. They thought that someone is hurting them but the truth is, what they’re feeling is what was already there and is only triggered by the recent minor event that took place.

You remain a HURT PERSON because you refused to recognize it, you refuse to admit it, you’re INDENIAL!

If you want to HEAL, ADMIT IT! RECOGNIZE IT! and GET HELP! You can’t do it on your own; you need someone to be with you, guide you, mentor you.

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Characteristics of Virtue of Humility

1. Attitude of gratitude
» We must be thankful of what we have
» We must recognize that what we have comes from God
» We must remember that we are nothing without God

2. Detachment
» We must know when to detach ourselves
» We must know where to be alone and know ourselves

3. Availability
» We must make ourselves available for the will of God
» We must be available for the grace of God
» Let God do His work on us

THERE IS HOPE FOR VAMPIRES!

How?
1. Let the light of God’s truth burn the vampire in you
- Let’s admit it and bring it before God
- When you admit it, don’t stop there and dwell on it. Go find a sheperd or a mentor who can guide you, who can be with you and who can help you change the VAMPIRE in you.

2. Let His love heal you
- You can get over it if you allow God’s love heal you.
- The question is: Will you allow Him to do it? Will you step in the light?
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BGC THE FEAST TALK 3: UNLI SERIES - ETERNAL REWARDS October 27, 2012

Matthew 6:1
“Pay attention, lest you perform your justice before men, in order to be seen by them; otherwise you shall not have a reward with your Father, who is in heaven.”


Your afterlife will be a mirror of what is in your heart.
» whatever you are experiencing in your heart will be what you are experiencing in your afterlife.


Heaven and hell starts now!
» starts living in heaven, now!
» hell here on earth: a life of bitterness, unforgiveness.


3 things that will happen in heaven:

1. You will be fulfilled perfectly

a. Dreams will come true

b. Wealth in heaven is permanent
- Mt 6: 19-20
“And I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven. And whatever you shall bind on earth shall be bound, even in heaven. And whatever you shall release on earth shall be released, even in heaven. Then he instructed his disciples that they should tell no one that he is Jesus the Christ.”

- the only wealth we keep, is the wealth we give away.

- whenever we do this, its as if were investing in our life in heaven

c. In heaven, all our tears will be wiped away
- Rev 7:14
And I said to him, “My lord, you know.” And he said to me: “These are the ones who have come out of the great tribulation, and they have washed their robes and have made them white by the blood of the Lamb.

- in heaven, there’ll be no more hardships, no more heartache, no more suffering.. Only one thing remains, LOVE.


2. You will be loved perfectly


3. You will love perfectly

- God is training you to love like Jesus

- our time here on earth is a training camp - earth is a training camp for heaven


Philippians 3:13-14
“But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward whatvos ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

RECEIVE!

BGC THE FEAST
Miracle Series
TALK 2: Receive
Dec 8, 2012


Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understading; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths”


1 John 5:14
“This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.”


Successful People have two powers:

1. Power to Dream
- There is no success in your comfort zone, it’s in your courage zone.
- There is a thin line between your courage zone and crazy zone. It is where the next power will comes in.

2. Power to Discern
- It is the power to know what is the best for your life right now


Why people fail to fulfill their dreams?

1. Wrong time
- It is not the size, its the time frame that is wrong.
- It is because we are often in a hurry — we are rushing things.
- We must be reminded to trust God in His timing.
- This does not mean we’ll be late nor be advance. What we need is to be synchronize with God’s time.
- What matters most is the development we had within the journey towards that dream
- Dream big, starts small and enjoy the journey

2. Wrong talent
- A dream should be based on our core talent.

3. Wrong trust
- 2 level of trusting God
1. Trust God that He will answer your prayer
2. Trust God that He will answer your prayer in the best way
- The question is are we willing to give Him your trust?


QUESTION: True or false? We should always include God in our plans?

Answer: FALSE
“It is imperative to be invluded in gods grearness and awesome masterplan”
- Ronnie Saisoyco


“Because of God’s Mercy, He doesnt answer all your prayers”

CONCEIVE!

BGC THE FEAST
Miracle Series
TALK 1: Conceive
Dec 1, 2012


Joel 2:28
“After this, I will pour my Spirit on everyone. Your sons and daughters will prophesy. Your old men will dream dreams. Your young men will see visions.”


How to make miracles flow in your life?

1. You’ve got to block the noise
- You need to block the noise and believe.
- Noise may refer to any forms of distractions, negative vibes, rejections etc.
- You should be positive. Claim that goal before it comes to your life.
- You’ve got to learn how to listen to the one giving direction.
- You want to win? God says “I am the way, the truth and the life”
- The one who wins is the one who was able to filter the noise and listen to the one who gives the direction.

2. Remind Yourself whom you belong to
- Jeremiah 1:5
“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I have appointed you a prophet to the nations.”
- Your picture of yourself creates YOU
- Establish yourself first, know your worth. With that you can hear other opinions and improve.
- Remember that what matters is God’s opinion.

3. Enlarge your vision
- If you dont have a vision, you wont be productive.
- God wants to surprise you!

4. Sorround yourself with fellow believers

5. Surrender the vision
- Remember that God knows what is right for you at the right time.
- If you keep on praying, if you know you did everything you could and still things won’t work the way you wanted it to be, surrender it to God.

Do you know a VAMPIRE?


This month’s topic of THE FEAST is very interesting. They use the term “VAMPIRE” to describe DIFFICULT PEOPLE.


The Vampire Series is composed of three talks:
1. How to spot a vampire
2. How to protect yourself from a vampire
3. How to transform a vampire


For this week, it’s Talk 1 at BGC THE FEAST. The talk was given by BGC THE FEAST builder, Bro. George Gabriel.


Who are VAMPIRES?
1. Vampires suck bloods of their victims
- they suck the life out of you
2. Vampires bite their victims and turn them to be just like them
- they influence you to be a person you are not until you become like them
3. Vampires are burn by sunlight
- they have a hard time admitting the truth about theirselves
- they’re in self denial of their faults and shortcomings
4. Vampires cannot see their own reflection in the mirror
- you fail to see the vampires in you


9 Common Types of Vampires
1. Criticizing Vampire
- he only sees what is wrong
- he is insecure
2. Controlling Vampire
- he manipulates you
- he will make you guilty
- he will bully you
3. Contradicting Vampire
- whatever you say, you are wrong!
4. Complaining Vampire
- he keeps on complaining
- he doesnt appreciate what he have
- God loves a cheerful giver (2 Cor 9:7)
5. Clinging Vampire
- cannot let you go
- he cannot function without you
- they are emotionally dependent to you
6. Crying Vampire
- he always feel he is a victim
- he makes an issue out of everything
7. Coward Vampire
- YES person: afraid to said “no”
- he is afraid to be rejected
- people pleaser
8. Comparing Vampire
- always looking with the other person
- there’ll always be someone better, but they dont see this. They are always unsatisfied.
9. Con Vampire
- these are people that you need to be most cautious.
- they look good, dress good, makes you feel good, appears happy, he looks good in totality - that’s why its hard for you to notice that he is a vampire
- great in the outside but when you enter his life he starts showing you his darkness


Why there are difficult people?

- No one is born a difficult person. All are born as God’s child. One becomes a difficult person because of life circumstances. There is someone or something that happened in his life that made him a difficult person.

- At the core of every difficult person, there is hurt, there is pain - a child that his hungry for love.

- Because they’re hurt, they tend to do these things:
1. Hurting people hurt other people.
- When other people hurt you, pause and ask, why did that person hurt you?
- Hurt people have unresolve issues/problems that are haven’t healed yet, thus, they will continue to hurt other people
2. Hurting people hurt easily
- They tend to think that people are hurting them.
- They easily judge that others are hurting them because they are already hurt - there is hurt to begin with. They are often confused. They thought that someone is hurting them but the truth is, what they’re feeling is what was already there and is only triggered by the recent minor event that took place.


Are you a vampire to others?

- Oftentimes, we are too busy looking for vampires that we forgot to look into ourselves.

- The exact weakness that irritates you about other often comes from your own unacknowledged weakness.

- The person who is aware and open about his own weaknesses is more forgiving.

Matthew 7:4
How can you say to your brother, “Let me take the speck out of your eye”, when all the time there is plank in your own eye?

Romans 12: 10,13
You, then, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or why do you treat them with contempt? For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat. Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another.

- Dont wait for them (VAMPIRES) to change, ask God to change you first.


There is hope for a vampire:
1. Let the light of God’s truth burn the vampire in you
- Let’s admit it and bring it before God
- When you admit it, don’t stop there and dwell on it. Go find a sheperd or a mentor who can guide you, who can be with you and who can help you change the VAMPIRE in you.
2. Let His love heal you
- You can get over it if you allow God’s love heal you.
- The question is: Will you allow Him to do it? Will you step in the light?

BGC THE FEAST TALK 2: UNLI SERIES -EARTHLY REWARDS October 20, 2012

Delaying gratification:
Planting before you harvest


Are you planting?
- if you lack earthly rewards, you are not planting
- if you want to harvest, seek for mentors on how you will plant your seeds. Study it and look for ways.


Are you harvesting?
- People think they don’t deserve it, they are not worthy of the harvest.
- Why do people dont enjoy their harvest? » because they have low self-worth
- Why don’t we find joy in our victories? Will God be insecure in our victories? NO!
- How can we be happy of our harvest? honestly love yourself: this is the 1st step to success.


Proverbs 10:5
He who gathers crops in the summer is a wise son, but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful son.


St. Irenaeus
“The glory of God is a human being fully alive; and to be alive consists in beholding God.”


Remember:

-Your earthly rewards will always be incomplete so keep on planting!

- Enjoy your harvest!

- What will you do here will be rewarded in heaven.

- God works in seasons. The answer may be not today but keep on planting and soon enough, harvesting will come.

BGC THE FEAST TALK 1: UNLI SERIES -EFFECTIVE REWARDS October 13, 2012

"Dont focus on the pain, focus on the prize!"


Revelation 22:12 (KJV)
And, behold, I come quickly; and my reward is with me, to give every man according as his work shall be.


“To a mature person, rewards are more powerful than punishments”


The Law of the Farm

2 Corinthians 9:6
Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously.
- are you sowing?
- are you planting the seeds?


Components of the Law of the Farm
1. You reap what you sow
- think of the good things you’ve done in your childhood, you are probably experiencing the effects of it now.
- “the older the tree, the deeper the roots”

2. If you’re not intentional, you reap what others have sown in you
- if someone planted some bad seeds in your land, remember you still own the land. You have the capacity to pluck out that bad fruit out your life.
- you can reverse the effect of the bad fruit in your life if you recognize it, if you seek help and if you decide to pluck it out of your life
- what you focus on, grows!

3. Rewards dont come instantly but in time
- when you plant good seeds now, you’re gonna receive your reward maybe not now but in God’s time


Galatians 6:7-8
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.


4. God will reward you even if others don’t

Colossians 3:23
Whatever you do work at it with all your heart as working with the Lord and not men.

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