temari and kankuro are probably so far behind on social interaction etiquettes. they probably spoke to so few people when they were kids into their teens. like they probably accidentally sneak up on people a lot. or stand too far away or don’t allow physical contact to a weird point. or they say things that are just a little too mean. don’t seek out their peers and wait for them to seek them out. people probably think they’re pretty rude. and it’s not really like they can control that. or understand just how weird they are with people even tho they get it and they try. it must be really hard.