My brother’s a redneck in the national guard and a definition of a bruh and pulled me aside to ask how he could make me comfortable and be more supportive with me coming out as trans and apologizing for not fully understanding it and forgetting to use male pronouns at times.
it was amazing and he’s never been this cool to me seriously
my dad’s girlfriend, on the other hand, stared at me all night and got really offended when i was given a baby to hold, and she took him away relatively roughly? despite saying for years that i should learn how to hold one and be more comfortable around children? and thats the only interaction we had/
my dad actively ignored me and my boyfriend? like iwe both said more to other people than to each other, despite me knowing only a few people at my nephew’s birthday party.
but it really bothers me that he seemed to actively ignore alan becauuse they always got along so well and could talk for an hour about stuuff. dad gave him the cold shoulder.
i think it’s his association to me.