"People with personality disorders are most likely abusive!!!" scream neurotypicals as they completely ignore the fact that many people develop personality disorders as a result of being abused themselves, and that their abusers are often neurotypical/ do not have personality disorders.
Redmayne praised the theatrical scene at Cambridge and the diversity of roles available, observing, perhaps bitterly, that in the ‘real’ acting world you are largely confined to “playing how you look.” He did, however, recount one particularly bizarre audition at the ADC in which an eccentric director made him count from one to ten, expressing each number with a different emotion. That sounds like some sort of cult initiation ritual to me. Redmayne also maintained that bullshitting his way through supervisions provided excellent training ground for his acting career. (source)