There is this goddamn car commercial with the song “I lived” and I realized that being a glee fan means never being safe again. You could walk into a bar and hear don’t stop believing, or go to the hairdresser’s and hear I’ll stand by you. Nowhere is safe. We’re screwed for life.

anonymous asked:

My closest friend is pan, just like me, and she went to a gay bar last night with her boyfriend (he's trans) and gays and lesbians were looking at them with contempt, and this men got close and said "ummm sorry but, this is a gay bar, you guys shouldn't be here, it's a little offensive" so my friend's boyfriend literally pulled out his phone and looked for a picture of him before transition and the gay men just apologized and left with his head down, and i was so fucking pleased to hear that

i honestly really don’t like this message like basically you’re implying that if a girl is dating a trans guy it’s actually gay even though it’s… a girl dating a guy. like obviously your friend is not straight and so she should be able to access lgbt+ spaces like gay bars but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s a girl dating a guy. even if she doesn’t define her relationship as straight (which she shouldn’t have to, being pan), i can understand why some gay people would be offended that somebody would be in a gay bar with their opposite-gender partner, especially if they’re doing some PDA or something. whether people at the bar should have been offended that she was there i’m kinda on the fence on (it’s not like she was kicked out of a pride parade or an lgbt support group or some other lgbt space that’s meant as a nice inclusive lgbt safe space; gay bars are kinda meant as places for guys to safely flirt and dance with other guys and girls to safely flirt and dance with other girls and if you’re in a relationship with someone of the opposite binary gender, i can definitely see why some people wouldn’t like you being there) but what i’m not on the fence on about is the fact that it’s transphobic as fuck that she showed gay people pictures of her boyfriend pre-transition to “prove” that she belonged there or something. like “look, he used to be a girl so really we’re a female/female couple and therefore it’s fine that we’re here!” a much better response on her part would be to just explain that she’s pan and (with his permission) that he’s trans. and if people still don’t want them there, maybe just go to another fuckin bar.

~ Harper

edit: i slightly misread the original message; i was thinking that your friend was the one showing the pictures on her phone. now that i know it was the trans guy doing it himself and not his girlfriend outing him without his permission, this pisses me off significantly less. but it still kinda pisses me off because regardless of what he “used to be”, he’s a guy and she’s a girl. and a guy and a girl shouldn’t go be obviously affectionate in a gay bar because that’s not what gay bars are for. if the trans guy in question passes, which it sounds like he does, they’d be perfectly safe PDAing it up in a straight bar, yknow?

Oneshot: Chocolate

Regina and Emma are happily married and Regina is pregnant. One day she really wants a big bar of chocolate. She goes into the kitchen and looks in all of the cupboards for it. 15 minutes later Emma comes home. She asks Regina what she’s doing and Regina tells her. Emma buys her the biggest bar she can find. Basically a cute fluffy SQ oneshot - Regina fan

Short but sweet SQ fluff. Thanks for the prompt. I don’t own Once or its characters. Apologies for any mistakes. Hope you all enjoy :)

Regina huffs as she sits on the couch. She has officially begun her maternity leave and it’s driving her nuts. There’s nothing to do which means all she can think about is being pregnant. Most of the time it’s good. Most of the time it means feeling kicks and little movements and knowing that soon their baby will be here.

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Gas masks, beakers and blue meth: a Breaking Bad-themed bar is opening in London

If you’re anything like me, you reluctantly watched the Breaking Bad pilot after all of your friends kept ranting about how amazing the series was, only to become more obsessed and addicted than the meth junkies onscreen. If you’re anything like me then you also didn’t leave the house, slept 3 hours a night and didn’t shower because you were too busy watching all five seasons in five days. Okay, I’ll admit I probably went a little crazier than the average viewer. Something about this show hooked me and I’ve been dangling on the line ever since.

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Bottom Layer:
Splash Island Punch Pucker Liqueur
2 Kiwis
1 oz (30 ml) Midori
1 oz (30 ml) Triple Sec
1 oz (30 ml) Tequila
Splash Lime Juice

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1 oz (30 ml) Passion Fruit Mix
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2 oz (60 ml) Strawberry Daiquiri Mix
2 oz (60 ml) Bacardi 151
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A small CC of gentle demeanor, any matter they consume dissolves into hot, soapy water, which, once collected, can remove any and all stains or contaminants from just about anything washed in it, soothes skin irritation, and does wonders for stress and sore muscles. When not releasing excess water through their blowhole, they frequently blow mist and bubbles through it, or through their mouth. Prone to hiccups. Sometimes forms ‘crystals’ of soap bars and rubber ducks, which can be spat out and given away.

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anonymous asked:

What is the best military/gun blog on tumblr in your opinion? are there more blogs like yours? and how many followers do you have? alot of questions sry.

There are a lot of good military blogs out there, but keep in mind that most, if not all, share their image space with girls, cars, guns and other things. I try to keep my blog strictly military related, but you’ll also see a little bit of gun porn from time to time. I like to think that military and guns often go hand in hand ^^

If you want guns then try to search “gunblr” on the search bar on top. If you want military then try to search generic terms such as “special forces” or “usmc”. 

I currently have 27.695 followers :) Don’t ask me how haha ^^

rwent to the next town over and wound up in a place that looks like it’s mid-gentrification

part of it was, y’know, beauty salons and laundromats and convenience stores, an old gift shop, your basic Chinese takeout place

and then right in this one block there was:

  • a place called “Euro Yogurt”
  • a vegan restaurant/organic juice bar
  • a homebrewing supply store
  • a hookah lounge

there goes the neighborhood