Submitted AU #293

You’re my favorite author of all time, I can’t express how excited I am to finally meet you and get some of my copies of your books signed, and oh my stars you’re far more attractive in person than I ever imagined from your photos.

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Oh, I don’t mean you’re handsome, not the way people think of handsome. Your face seems kind. But your eyes ­ they’re beautiful. They’re wild, crazy, like some animal peering out of a forest on fire. I will remember the kisses, our lips raw with love, and how you gave me everything you had and how I offered you what was left of me.
—  Charles Bukowski
Interview: Marie Blanchet

Today we’re joined by Marie Blanchet.  Marie is an extremely talented visual artist and a writer.  She’s currently working on her first novel, which has a number of characters including an ace girl and a demisexual man.  Oh, and lots and lots of dragons.  My thanks to her for taking the time to participate in this interview.

NOTE: Please visit the WordPress site for even more of Marie’s amazing work.

WORK

Please, tell us about your art.

On a professional level I am a graphic designer with a minor in comic books, fresh out of university. On a personal level my art is mostly centered on illustrations and writing and illustrations of my writing.

I’m working on my first novel, a medieval fantasy called Scale Hearts that is the first part of a trilogy. Hopefully, it will be followed by a modern fantasy sequel and then a futuristic sci-fi fantasy volume. I also have plans for a tie-in comic to top it all off, but these are still only plans at this point. All of these projects include a wild range of characters, both gender wise and sexuality wise because I don’t believe in making assumptions about characters until they are on the page and reveals themselves to you (and usually succeed in ruining all your plans for them).

What inspires you?

Everything that I see around me. Art, graphic design, architecture, science, history… I can go on tumblr or turn on the TV expecting to relax and then Bam! Inspiration.

I love socio-history am I am fascinated by the idea that everything you see around you has a history and a reason to be there (why do we use forks? Why are forks the way they are? Is there an historical, geographical or even social reason for the evolution and use of forks?) Since I am developing a whole new world in which my novel takes place (the tangible existence of dragons would change a lot of our culture, I believe) then I constantly turn to history and even mythology for inspiration.

I also tend to take ideas more out of fanfiction and other assorted fanworks than out of published media because I feel like there is more creative freedom to be found in these stories. Notable exceptions to this would be the works of Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett and the manga group CLAMP because you just cannot get this perfect.

What got you interested in your field?  Have you always wanted to be an artist?

I always wanted to be some sort of artist and I always made up stories, ever since I can remember. As for being a graphic designer (graphic design is my wife and illustration is my mistress, as I am fond of saying), that’s actually a funny story. I am a bit of a scientific person, who works better with rigid constraints and deadlines. Wild creativity was never my forte. I like to make a project for a client for a purpose when working professionally. So I always knew I didn’t want to study in a visual art program, but I knew I wanted to work in something related to the arts. So one day I high school I go see the orientation lady, and we sit down and Google for a bit to see if anything fits my criteria (art, not visual arts, maybe work on a computer…?). We eventually find the graphic design program, which is both art and marketing. Neither of us knew what is was about, not really, but I still decided to enroll in that. Fast forward to my first class in CEGEP. I sit down, listen to the teacher in intro to graphic design talk a bit, and then it hits me. Oh. This is it. This is exactly where I want to be. I found my people.

I had the same feeling some years later when I took the comic book minor classes in uni, and isn’t it amazing that something like that happened to me twice?

Do you have any kind of special or unique signature, symbol, or feature you include in our work that you’d be willing to reveal?

As I mentioned I’m not one for wild creativity, so a lot of my professional design work is very structured and efficient. (efficiency before beauty or beauty before efficiency are two very differing mindset in the design world. I am the former, and most of the people when I studied in France were the latter, and that created frictions a bit). I also like using white space and minimalist design when I can get away with it. But since it’s all client work, I can’t really say that any of my projects have anything in common.

As for my personal work, I tend to gravitate towards anime-inspired characters when doing illustration, and I always sign with my initials.

What advice would you give young aspiring artists?

Do you like doing art? Then keep doing it. Even if the people directly around you don’t like it, remember that there are a hell of a lot of people on the planet and everyone likes something different. You’ll find your public eventually. Also there is no crap in art. There is only practice for more art. You want to write a Mary-Sue that will make you and two of your friends happy? Then go ahead! Someday you might write something else and use the experience you acquired when writing that Mary-Sue.

And never let yourself be stopped by the “it’s good in my head but when I put it down on paper it didn’t come out like I intended” thing, especially when writing. A lot of my characters decided to reveal things about themselves to me, like Alexander’s depression or Lilas’ asexuality, only while I was writing them and not before. So what if the product is different than it was in your head? That doesn’t mean it’s inferior.

ASEXUALITY

Where on the spectrum do you identify?

I’m demisexual, although some days I wonder if I’m not closer to ace than to demi. If I look at someone and see something I like, it’s usually in a aesthetic neutral way, which I always attributed to being an artist (as it’s usually followed by the thought ‘oh wow I want to draw your muscles’) before I knew what asexuality was.

Have you encountered any kind of ace prejudice or ignorance in your field?  If so, how do you handle it?

Well apparently we don’t exist.

There isn’t much prejudice in the field of design aside from the usual “marketing is selling stuff and sex sells and everyone loves sex” way, which I always find hard to understand. The world is obsessed with sex and that’s just weird.

When it comes to writing, a lot of what I get is the assumption that I’m a prude when I don’t write sex or surprise when I do write it.

What’s the most common misconception about asexuality that you’ve encountered?

People, even my own boyfriend, have a hard time wrapping their heads around that I don’t mind talking about sex but I get super uncomfortable when there is discussion about sex that somehow involves me or the assumption of me being a sexual being. Like, I don’t mind talking to other people about their experiences but start making innuendos at me and I’m gonna shut that conversation so damn fast

I could say that the misconception is that either
-aces don’t exist, or
-aces don’t ever want to walk about sex ever (man, when I make a dirty joke do I get stares) or
-that if they are okay talking about it then they are okay about talking about everything

Also it is not the result of abuse, come on people.

What advice would you give to any asexual individuals out there who might be struggling with their orientation?

It’s okay. It’s a thing that exist, it even has a name. You are not alone. There are blogs on the internet where you can reach out to people like you, and you don’t owe anyone anything. You are perfect, always remember that.

Finally, where can people find out more about your work?

Well I have an official website, www.blanchetmarie.com, or you could always come ‘round my personnal blog http://toostressedforthis.tumblr.com/tagged/my-art where I post all of my new art that doesn’t make it to the website. It’s mostly Scale Hearts art though, because that project is my baby.

Thank you so much, Marie, for participating in this interview and this project.  It’s very much appreciated.

WHY???
Why must every romance author disappoint me????
Even my favorite author (so far) that I’m reading right now- seems to ALWAYS have that moment where one of the people in the relationship packs up and takes off without discussing anything with the other……… Seriously?
I get the need for a climactic conflict…. But in real life, if I was in a supposed deep, long-term relationship with someone, and they were willing to just pack up their stuff and leave without a word?… I think I’d have to think twice about whether they were really worth going after.
Newsflash- the people closest to you are going to hurt you the deepest, and you’re going to feel betrayed or broken from time to time because people are fallible…. and if you’re truly committed to each other and the relationship you’re going to fight it out like adults and move forward and be stronger for it. Not lashing out over one hurt with another potentially relationship-ending hurt. (Especially when it’s over something stupid.) Stop writing women as petulant and childish.
UGH. Rant over.
And admittedly, the woman knows how to write great sex and engaging characters. Can’t deny that.

I need help in the worst way.

We are about to lose our home. We have nowhere to go. I have a husband and a 5 year old autistic boy. I’m not going to guilt you, or persuade you, or try to win you over with flowery language.

This is my need.

Because I’m not one for charity, all I’m asking is for a favor. I have major depression, Tourettes, a panic disorder, general anxiety, and agoraphobia. it is very difficult for me to function outside of this house. And I will be getting a job if I can.

But I need a favor.

I wrote a book called Shadowhawk, and have another due for release on July 1st called Under the Moon. The premise of the book series, which will have two short stories and one full length book about 30-40,000 words (which I am still working on) is to present the LGBT+ community representation in a normalized setting.

There are asexual, transgender, bisexual, and gay individuals in the book that receive a lot of attention, as nearly everyone in the book is somewhere on the LGBT+ spectrum. There will be autistic individuals as well as plenty of POC (including Native Americans, Hispanics, and others, I’m sorry, I’m very tired and stressed out) and strong female leads.

It’s not much. Nearly everyone I know has ADD or ADHD and can’t sit down for one book, so Shadowhawk is a mere 3,000 words. Under the Moon is around 5,000.

The books are $3.14 USD with tax added on. The link is here to get both

Please reblog, because just liking it really limits the scope of my reach.

I would appreciate the help. I feel a deep shame for doing this, because I’m not one to ask for help from strangers.

Submitted AU #232

I am an author and you are at my booksigning but why are you handing me these scrap papers to sign? Wait - is that the first story I ever wrote and trashed because some people at highschool made fun of me by reading it out loud? And now you’re here, not to tease me, but because you liked my writing even back then?

- Anonymous