Just let that person know that you’re going to be there for them no matter what. I know how it feels to be helpless when someone you care for is getting hurt/in danger. It’s nerve wracking but the best you can do is give them a kind ear and a shoulder to lean on.
Hawaii? I’ve been for cases, a few times. It’s alright but I wouldn’t want to live there. I have sensitive skin, and it’s too bright there for my liking. Los Angeles is my home, and will be for a while to come.